After realizing this nice guy vs jerk contoversy... I always wonder if it was an age issue.. Like girls usually tend to want to have fun at the begginning so they go for the "bad" guy for the challenge and fun. Then they get tired of it and settle for the "nice" guy...
I dont want to come sounding like I am trying to generalize.. Ofcourse there might be some exceptions... but I want to see if this idea is true or not by all the answers as a whole...
Now I would like to know your age and if your currently with a "nice" guy or "bad" boy.. and your thoughts about this issue. Thanks =]
2007-03-25 04:39:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My first one was "the nice guy", and he wasn't. My second one kidnapped me, took me across 5 state lines, and my ransom was to get married. He knelt in the park and asked me to marry him and gave me a big survival knife instead of a ring lol. We did the cigar band thing. He is 14 years younger than me and we have been together 23 years. Every year is better than the one before. Maturity is a great thing. I have done more, learned more and had many interesting experiences with this one. Once he had a relationship with God and prayed with me each night before bed made all the difference. I am 61 this year and he is 47. Mmm
2007-03-25 05:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with a nice guy that has a bad boy apprearance. He doesnt go along with the "norm" I think women sometimes like the idea of being with a bad boy they just dont want to deal with what that badboy dishes out. The nice guy in reality does win. We just have to make sure we do not confuse niceness with weakness-
2007-03-25 04:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by fuchetrookbies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19, with a nice guy. having a bad boy streak is kinda hot, but not a 24/7 badboy...that's more trouble than I'm looking for at this point in my life
2007-03-25 04:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a guy and that i like sturdy females. i've got been with a undesirable woman and that i did no longer like the way my acquaintances and family contributors regarded at me and concept-approximately me. they did no longer appreciate me as mich and he or she had to plenty bags. i'm only16 i do no longer want all of that drama and stuff i will concern approximately in 10 years or a number of it by no ability returned. sturdy females are beautiful i think of i will carry on with that and be respected.
2016-10-01 11:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married to a nice man, but he was a bad boy when he was young. I did not know him then.
2007-03-25 04:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 15 i'm with the nice guy...bad boys just dont interest me
2007-03-25 04:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by lucyann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice or bad, doesn't this depend on you standards and values?
2007-03-25 04:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by tripppah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋