i lost one of my closest friend cause he liked me but i didn't.
don't know why am i feeling so lonely and sad
thinking about past makes me sad, thinking about future makes me bored.
today i feel lonely, so was yesterday and the day before
i feel incomplete.
what should i do
2007-03-25 04:36:53 · 7 answers · asked by Bruu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
One of these days, you will realize that the world is not only limited to one person.
Remember that.
2007-03-25 04:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ansia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but it sounds as though you unconsciously define your self and your life through other people. When other people's actions affect our feelings and thoughts so much that we feel lonely and incomplete, then it's time to withdraw inside and find our true self. I'm sure you are an intelligent, beautiful person who has love to give, after all G-d made you who you are. Try to spend some time alone listening to music or reading a book or just observe the world around you. Learn to appreciate your own breath - it will always be with you. Pay special attention to your feelings of loneliness, sadness, anger, and so forth. Attempt to locate where these feelings manifest on or in your body.
Everything you describe in your question has a solution. Learn to love and trust your self before any other person out there. They can and should wait for you to be ready.
G-d bless.
2007-03-25 11:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by El Pajaro Loco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
losing a friend is definitely heartbreaking especially if it is your mistake.one thing all must remember in life is that friends are not easily found and when one comes your way you are not supposed to lose him.
if you didn't like him then rethink on that point and try to rectify if you feel you've made a mistake by turning him down.But if you feel what you did was right then go ahead with your life there is sure a better and your kind of friend waiting for you.all you need to have is patience.so be patient.
hope i was of some help.
good luck.
2007-03-25 11:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by asp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. Try finding something to take your mind off things like a hobby. I write. Then you may be able to use that hobby to strike up a conversation with a potential friend.
2007-03-25 11:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Xena_fire 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go back to that friend and ask to be friends with him again. just friends. if he says yes, then think about if you want to get deeper because you can sometimes surprise yourself by finding out your most inner secrets or things maybe you were pushing away so you did not have to face them.
2007-03-25 11:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and tell ur feelings 2 him
2007-03-25 11:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by max_freak404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find someone right for you, just go with the flow, eveything has its time
2007-03-25 11:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Vincent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋