she want to so much things on me, but i can't some..how can i?
2007-03-25 04:33:27 · 22 answers · asked by hoang t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
File for divorce. That will make her go away. That is the closest you're going to get to controlling her.
2007-03-25 04:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is what you are asking by saying "she wants so much things" you mean she wants to but a lot of things...but you cant afford them? and you need to control her spending? If so then just sit down with a pen and paper and show her what all the bills are and what is left over at the end of the month. If this is not what you mean then I am afraid you can not control a persons spirit....you can reason with a person...but NOT control them....at least not for long.....and then they are gone.
2007-03-25 11:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like your wife figured out that you have no goals in life and generally just coast along without any ambition. She clearly does not trust you to take care of her and the family. You have let her down big time. She is disappointed in you.
Show her that you can provide for your family by working towards a goal. Be a man and step up to the plate and take some responsibility. Then she will respect you. And then you can work together for a better future.
It sounds like your wife is the only one who right now wants to have a better future for your family. Don't put the blame on her. It is your fault for not being a better provider. Get your act together and stop whining.
2007-03-25 12:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control your wife....She's not a animal...she's not a car..or a vaccum. Talk to her tell her what's up.....My husband and I have been married a long time.....and I know for sure if he tried to control me...it would have been over a long time ago. She's a person...just like you.
2007-03-25 11:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by smurfie45 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There no way you can control a human being! unless your wife is a robot! Talk to her nicely and let her know your diffculties when you are unable to meet her needs or request? Good Luck
2007-03-25 11:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by TO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your budget down on paper, what comes in, what has to go out. Allow for groceries. Then see what is left over. Show the budget to your wife. Decide on an amount out of your discretionary funds and give your wife that amount to save towards whatever is on her list for you to provide.
2007-03-25 13:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In America you can not control another person unless they wish it. You can only control yourself. Some people need help from professionals to to this you may be one of those people
2007-03-25 11:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not a child. You two should talk about what works best for your marriage. Trying to control her will drive her away.
2007-03-25 11:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Xena_fire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you try to control your wife thats some form of abuse you can't control a person you can talk nice to each other
2007-03-25 12:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No body can CONTROL another person. (In that sense) This is your wife, you sit here down and tell her, "look, I am sorry I am not completely pleasing you but I can promise you that I will try my best to do better. That is all that I can do. " She should accept it. How sad really.
Good luck and have a great day.
Kristy
2007-03-25 11:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. K 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋