Does any one have that dream about your ex boyfriends, girlfriends, or husbands or wives?

Question

Does any one have that dream about your ex boyfriends, girlfriends, or husbands or wives?
in the waking hours, the person you had loved never say anything why left you or whatever but in dreams, shey/he would tell you why or just simple said. "I don't love you anymore."

strange on my case seems the truth behind the real time.. when my (soon to be ex) husband left me and I was ruined and very ill. Now I am getting stronger each time with looking back. most the dreams about him won't leave me alone and some dreams about moving on... But last night when I was dreaming that we had some kind gathering time like family and friends hang out. But in this dream, I bugged him and asked him why did he leave.... he told me because he don't love me anymore. but in this dream I was crying.. but when I woke up, I felt better like i knew now that he just "told" me...

Did that ever happened to you all or is very rare... I am 26 yrs old and will be getting divorce soon...
Thanks...

accidently put in single and dating... it should be in marriage and divorce...

Answer 1

Yes, I've had dreams about my ex - they're called nightmares!

Answer 2

it just sounded like you needed for him to give you a reason why he left. because things make more sense to you that way. you felt this so deeply that I manifested in your dreams. to finally have him give you a reason, to give you closure. but it sounds more like how you feel, rather than any insight into how he feels. most of the time, I don't even know why I stay or why I leave and some people may say they can name why. But most of the time, we don't know why, for anything. like people making up a god so they can have answers, be certain, and feel better.

Answer 3

When one is married or in a relationship for awhile, a piece of them always will remain with you. If you were married and had children together, you often take on the personna of your other half. Each of your partners male or female have an inner self that centers on family, friends, and life time sharing. This is nature. When children are involved, it is a necessary stimuli to protect and guard your children. A piece of each of you are ingrained in your off spring. A child learns from both parents and pick up quickly on their parents - be it Biological or adoption. As life is part of us all, thus nature and personality is also as twain to natures surrounding life - so goes it with each other. When you care and love someone, you become that part of the "cycle of life" ! For instance, when a woman surrenders her virginity to another, it remains with that woman forever. For it is a natural instinct to do so. When God created Man, he created Woman, and without man or woman, children can not be born. One raises ones stimuli by being alone and the world as intended to be shared by each other. No matter if your lesbian or gay, life is always shared. It is part of our inborn psyche. One never forgets ones first or permanent love.....:) :) :)

Answer 4

yeah i have had dreams about my ex's. Me and my last ex still talk. i had dreams about us hanging out even after we had broken up and just last week before i was going to sleep, i was wondering if he still loved me and then i had a dream about him saying he was going to liberate mexico hah i know thats kind of weird. but i took it as a sign that he wouldnt have time for me anymore and that he had moved on and so should i. I think dreams do have atleast some significance.

Answer 5

I have had dreams about ex's. They are just dreams, they mean nothing to me. I wake up and roll over and see the real love of my life laying right there.

Good luck and have a great day.
Kristy

Answer 6

This is normal, but not necessarily the truth .... it is your sub conscience trying to work things out for you while you sleep! I was married to my first husband for over 20 years... He died in his sleep one morning and I had no warning or closure...
I remarried about a year later.. and the dreams began... My first husband would be in my dreams and would tell me that I was not legally married to my current husband... He would tell me that he didn't really die and just needed a vacation! So he faked his death... he didn't think that I would re-marry! So, he told me to pack my bags and gather the kids and go home with him! I would wake up shaking and crying most of the time! It was about two years of these repeated nightmares before I made peace with my first husband's death... the dreams have changed now... and when I dream about him, it is about the good things in the past that I remember and loved about him... I know that he was not coming to haunt me now,... I know that it was me not being able to deal with his suddenly dying and leaving me to raise our six children alone!
When I got married again, I not only had to deal with my kids accepting my new husband, but also had two step daughters who had just lost their mother as well... there was alot of grief to handle on both sides! I'm sure that with time, things will be easier, but don't let self doubt tell you that he never loved you..
just do your best and move on with your life.. maybe someone better is waiting for you and in time you will be ready to love again! I hope that your dreams will let you rest! I usually wake up tired out from some of mine! ;0) Good luck!

Answer 7

The reason you dreamed it is because you really knew it in your heart all along.

Keep strong, I know it is a difficult process to go thru.

Answer 8

lately i been dreaming a lot of my fiancee, but since i dont like my ex i think my mind set it off NOT to dream of her, im much happier with my present relationship now.

Answer 9

i dream about my wife every night so its possible if they made a big impact in your life.good luck

Answer 10

they are jus dreams and mean nothing.