He isn't my first bf and I have never had anyone else complain about the fluids that come out. I went and saw a doctor just to make sure it wasn't an infection. He said that it wasn't a yeast infection or any infection for that matter. He says the stuff that come out are normal and that I need them to keep my vagina healthy since that's what fights infections. What do I do? He makes me feel bad every time he makes those remarks. He says it doesn't even taste right. Somtimes is sour, sometimes salty ... I tasted it myself and didn't think much of it. Guys is this how it is supposeed to taste? Do all girls release fluids while you perform oral?
2007-03-25 03:54:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
the liquids there not only help in preventing infections, they are one of the reasons why sex is good. if you're not wet enough, it means you aren't aroused enough, not enjoying enough.
I'm sorry, but your boyfriend's not being a very good lover, in a psychological and emotional sense, rather than just physical.
right before oral sex, why don't you let him see you wash the area specifically, let him know that it's really clean, just to appease and reassure his senses even if you're clean before washing.
"He says it doesn't even taste right." - well, that's pompous of him. how many women has he tasted for him to say such a thing? He has to understand that women, while they are young, fertile, healthy and are willing to have sex, do get wet between the legs. It's nature's lubricant.
Would getting a different sexual lover, perhaps a very specified niche, just an oral sex lover help? I mean, of course it's your relationship, but it's also your sex life, as an individual, as a woman.
Follow your bliss.
2007-03-25 04:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by ficklefeather 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he simply doesn't like performing oral that's one thing. And if that's the case he's entitled to feel that way and you can't pressure him. HOWEVER, he has absolutely no right to say such things to you. AND if he won't do it for you, then you don't have to do it from him. Plain and simple.
If the doctor said nothing is wrong with you then your boyfriend is just being more than alittle insensitive.
2007-03-25 05:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rayvin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not too fond of your natural lubrication. Don't pressure him. He may just not like performing oral, and is using this as an excuse to not do it. Talk with him about it and find a compromise. Maybe he can use manual stimulation or a toy instead.
2007-03-25 04:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by aqx99 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you performing oral on him? If so and he doesnt like doing it on you get rid of him . the reason why it has different taste is because of what you eat my husband is diabetic and his taste sweet if he has a lot of sugar in his system otherwise its salty or sour
2007-03-25 04:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by pickgina474 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes all girls release fluids while being given oral ur bf is just a jerk
2007-03-25 04:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by j-rod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holy Crap......I LOVE all the juices that are flowing during my playtimes and lunches!! That is a big PLUS in my book!
PS....Your descriptions of tastes is exactly what I'm accustomed to. I assure you that the problem is with him...not you.
2007-03-25 04:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All healthy women release fluids, it is because you are aroused and it's for lubrication. If your boyfriend doesn't like it it's his problem. Find a guy who can appreciate your love juice!!!
2007-03-25 08:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry girl about the liquid that's coming out ..that is just natural....if he dont like the taste then dont force him to do so.....
2007-03-25 06:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by wawa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just dont do oral. might be easiest.
2007-03-25 05:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it's very normal... if he won't do u don't do him
2007-03-26 03:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋