Why are guys two faced? I mean, I've seen specific friends of mine talk so much crap on "friends" of theirs, and then it's like, the second they see them they're all, "Oh hey Matt, what's up man? You coming out with us later?" Like they're the best of friends or something! They often times seem worse than girls in this aspect, in my opinion. Not only two faced, but gossipers! So bad that it would give my grandma a run for her money. I guess I was naiive in thinking that guys weren't like this to begin with, but THIS bad?! It makes me think, "Well if they're talking crap on people who aren't in the room, what do they say about ME when I'm not around?"
2007-03-25 03:43:59 · 10 answers · asked by aslgirl143 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Guys that are like this probably want to please everybody. They are afraid to be different. They don't stand for anything, so they fall for anything.
2007-03-25 03:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have an interesting way of asking for help. Make the request and then insult the group of people that you want help from...
anyway...guys do this the same amount of time that girls do it. For everything you said about guys in you post, the same can be said about girls.
Generally, people want to avoid confrontation and uncomfortable situations. As to what people say about you when you're not in the room, don't sweat it. If a person doesn't have the guts to say what they think about you to your face, then it's not worth your time dwelling on it.
2007-03-25 10:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Thrill K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are just as bad as girls when it comes to gossiping. some people gossip because they are jealous some do it because they have nothing else better to do. as for as what people say when we're not around, we'll never know.
2007-03-25 10:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be straight up wit ya, if you worried about yo "friends" sayn stuff behind yo back den dey aint yo real friends. But, not all guys are too faced. just some feel that dey need to change to gain a certain attention.
2007-03-25 10:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Blax 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gossipping is everywhere.not all men like gossip stuff.Some yes.
2007-03-25 11:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most blokes are like this where i work they all b*tch and back stab and when they see them they are like alright mate but if they find out they dont care they say they have better things to worry about than that
2007-03-25 10:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by outrun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone isnt taking one for the team, if you know what I mean.
2007-03-25 10:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be cool,don`t get mad...wat happen before you post this question?
,ok how about females?think about girls,you think you`re so perfect?
2007-03-25 10:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by gerardz55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are hanging with the wrong crowd.
2007-03-25 10:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by Dr-Brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably tell everyone that they are "doing" you.
find some new friends !!
2007-03-25 10:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by whydoesapenguin? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋