My OLD bestfriend keeps calling me, ( I moved) I don't like her at all, but she's in a really tough parental situation, But she only calls when she needs help, and never cares about me, am I being spoiled or do I have a point? She lies all the time and i don't like her, should I tell her to stop calling, if so how?? Should I deal w/ her, if so How???
2007-03-25 03:34:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she only calls when she needs help then consider yourself a 'counsellor/friend'...
if you are THAT tired of talking to her, tell her, "listen, you and i used to be best friends, but, i feel you have never really cared for me because you have lied to me and never call me unless you need some help...i have come to the point in my life where i think it would be best for you to call someone else." then stick with it...if she calls again, don't take her call.
2007-03-25 03:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she be your OLD best friend!????? if she is your best friend why is she not NOW? R you sure she lies? What did she lie about or did someone tell you this? You need to talk to her if she was a OLD best friend. There might just be a mis communication problem!!! I don't think she would lie to you if you were best friends. Friendships need communication so you should sit her down & find out What happened!!! At that time then decide if you r no longer friends. Something had you once interested!!
2007-03-25 10:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about how the friendship is going. As a decent person, you should try to help her through this difficult time. Once you show how good of a friend you are, she may put in more effort into the relationship too. In the meantime help her out but don't keep thinking about how bad she is. Move on.
2007-03-25 10:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by breezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that so i can help u!! If it is ur house phone u need to play her say I need u to stop calling here cause my parents are trippen so dont call me I will call u!!!!! If it is ur cell then change ur number and be carful of who u given it out to!!! ur welcome!! lol!!
2007-03-25 10:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by huslaliven1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you have a point, but if shes realy anoying you that bad and u REALY think thats shes a fake then talkk to her about how you feel and tell her that you dont think you guys shiuld eb freinds anymore.When i moved i had alot of freinds but now i monly friends with one of thouse people now.I relsied whos fake and whos not.And form what ur telling me shes a fake freind if shes just using u for held and advise.
2007-03-25 10:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by micky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was family i would say deal with it ,but she is not family she is a friend so kick her to the curve
2007-03-25 10:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you have moved on and she needs to sort out her own problems as you have your own problems as well and dont need any more stress in your life
2007-03-25 10:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by outrun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her politely that you don't want her to call........... if she keeps calling change your phone number!!!
2007-03-25 17:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by Hottie (Jill) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
justy be straight up. nothing changes unless you take action. tell her how it is without attacking her. be calm and fa real.
2007-03-25 10:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Blax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋