how u feel at the time of period and what u do please guide?

Question

actuay i m about to have period, i do not have anyone m leaving at hostel so i hesitate to ask anyone please tell everything how u fee how to take precaution any risk in intercouse before or after please tell everything. i am really worrking some tell it give lot of pain etc...

Answer 1

Dear Rosy, too bad that you didn't tel how old you are. Than I could give you a little bit better informations, but I assume that you're very young.

To start from the basics ( this is gonna be a long reply)!

When you're having your period, your body is cleaning your wound to prepare your body for next ovulation ( process in which your egg leaves ovaries ands starts to flow toward wound, to be fertilized and if fertilization happens, it will get implanted int the wound and baby will start to grow). If fertilization doesn't happen, a thin layer of the wound gets peeled off together with the unfertilized egg, and with a slight bleeding is getting washed away from the body. That's PERIOD!

This process is conducted by hormones. How long it's gonna take for egg after the period to leaves ovaries, depends from person to person, but it's usually 14 days. 14 DAYS AFTER EGG LEFT OVARIES, PERIOD WILL START!
This way, if you have steady cycles you can calculate when you can get pregnant! Don't forget that egg lives for 48 hrs, and men's seamen as well, so 48 hrs before and after ovulation, it's 99% sure that you WILL get pregnant. Just in case, it's smart to count 4 days before and after ovulation to use protection if you don't want babies. The rest should be safe.
DANGER! Hormones can get imbalanced by malnutrition, stress ( like big shock, big happiness, big sorrow ), irregular sleeping some medications... That's why this method of protection is 75% safe. Hormones might get messed up, and your ovulation might gonna come a week too early or too late. In that case you might be in trouble. If you're living a normal life with not too much stress, you're not taking any strong medications ( I don't think of the painkillers, but something stronger like antidepressant) and you're not getting married that month, this method should work.

Since cycle is conducted with hormones, few days before period you might already feel slight changes ( hormones affect a lot of aspects in human body, even a behavior). You can feel that you're getting more emotional than usual, sometimes your can feel like your breasts are getting a little bit bigger ( I never notice that, but my boyfriend is always happier in those days) even your peristaltic can become slower. This is called PMS ( Pre Menstrual Syndrom). It usually starts 2-3 days before period itself. When period itself starts, except of bleeding you will feel like something is "brewing" inside of your wound. Pain in the crutches is possible as well. Will you just feel a little bit unpleasant or you will actually experience a strong pain, depends from person to person. If you're body is making more hormones, your pain will be bigger ( but you'll enjoy love making more as well, so it's not so bad after all ). If your pain is too big, you can go to see gynecologist and ask him to prescribe you anty-baby pills. That way you won't be able to stay pregnant, and your period pain will almost disappear. That's a standard procedure in my country ( I'm from Croatia).
Influence of the hormones is getting bigger by years. Hormones are on their peak form the age of 30 to 35 ( at least in Europe), and in these time you can expect that your pain will be the biggest, but your desire as well.

Regarding making love during period, yes it's true that in those days your body is more vulnerable than usual, and it's easier get infected. It is also be messy ( if you want to do it in those times, I suggest to you to use some other area, and not the bed - shower makes a good choice). Although a lot of women don't want to do that in those times ( they feel dirty and undesirable), I was surprised when i realized that most of the men don't mind that too much ( because of my job I'm in contact with people from all over the world - I work on a cruise ship, and this statement works for guys from all over the world, Indian guys included). So it's up to you and your loved one if you'll do it in those times or not. If you will, just be extra careful regarding cleanliness ( one more + for shower )


I would just like to say that all these things that I wrote we learn in a 7th grade of elementary school ( in the age of 13 ). It's just so sad that your government is not giving you these informations in your school. So much of unhappiness could be avoided if you people know these things on time ( guys included).

Answer 2

although it cramps little before day of period still it gives really gives extreme satisfaction ..i know few girls who think it tedious......enjow enjow and enjow rosy if u are girl (its difficult at net to assume sex of person u r ans)its sigh of womenhood even if complexity within makes me think what is evolution role of having this wastefull process of having periods...well I really dont know mensoutlook of having sex to women having periods ... although I have no intercorce until now but feel its cool to have at any time of female cycle if its true orgasm...how do you know that you are about to have periods its uncertain and can have at any age between 10-16????

Answer 3

Honey youre lucky. My cramps just about kills me. I have no time to think about how I feel. And having sex during periods is messy & unhygienic. Cant you just wait for a few days?

Answer 4

if your asking help about periods then why are you messing intercourse in it,call your mother on phone and get help.and also dont forget to use condoms if you really do it.