okay I am engage to someone the I don't think I am ganna end up with . or I don't see my self spending my life with. and everything about my relationship is negative. it wasn't like that until we get close to the wedding witch supposed to be in July. my fiance he totally changing every day. he never say something and stick with it. I don't fell he loves me. he so cheap.and only think about his family an haw he ganna pay hes bills. I don't have problem with that. I have a job. and I am a collage student. independent. but I need a man who be there for me he never there for me. I want to talk to him and tell him that fact that he knows it about leaving me and move on with his and my life. IT happened before I know him for 4 years but for 2 years we wasn't together. anyways. 3 month a go I met a guy who I totally like and fell like hes the man that I can have in my shoulders...I didn't want to talk to him and decided to wait and see if he likes or just want to waist my time. but I was surprised that kept asking me for my number. and always try to meet anywhere I am . at the mall store. whatever . nobody did this to me and fallow me and wanted to talk to me so bad. last week I decide to call him. he asked to take me on a date. we did it was wonderful. hes just the man I see my self with. I real man. I know its too quick to say that. but he makes me fell spacial. I had a problem with my car last week. and he take care of everything and fixed it form ME he do anything for me I don't even have to asked . for the short time I know him I fell like hes wonderful. when we walking at the street he always protect.and make sure that we are in save place. I mean. I am a woman that needed a man and the who supposed be there he s not but there is other person that I don't know that ,much doing what ever he can to make me happy and make fell spacial. what would u do if u were me??!!! hes just want I wanted the looks the height the weight the personality. and Oslo the fact that hes from different country and speak different language then I am . . ALL THIS DAYS WHERE IS MY FIANCE he have no idea about haw my life is and what I am doing. I am lost I don't know what to do. should I keep up with my fiance or what?!!!
2007-03-25 02:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Soory if my story is long. an di really thank all of yo'll.
2007-03-25 03:05:29 · update #1
Here what I don't understand. I'm a single man and can't get a woman to look at me. I'm funny and caring and loving guy,and do anything to get the same back. then there you who loves someone that don't give a sh#? about you. If he this way to you let him go, don't look back. He is a a!%. threw thick and thin threw death do us part threw sickness and health. that someone you should marry. they do anything for you. someone who going to help you threw the hard time and the bad times.
2007-03-25 04:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by mex45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why are you going on dates with anyone if your engaged to another guy? Do yourself and fiance a favor and break off all plans to be married. Own up to the fact you are seeing someone behind his back. Be a woman about this! As for the other guy the least you can do is be honest with him as well! If not and things develop between you, then know it will come back to bite you in the rear.
It sounds as if you have two very nice guys, but do them both a favor and for once in your life be honest about what you are doing!
2007-03-25 03:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl,
i know how you feel, but you should forget about the new guy for a little bit and see how things work with your man. maybe he just wants to get some stuff done so you can move on with your lives together. you need to eather tell him that you want to work it out but he needs to be the man you fell for or you cant be with him. its just always a good idea to end things first and if the other guy loves you he will loves you he will respect that and back off tell you make up your mind. trust me. i have been there.
2007-03-25 03:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by luvnlifelol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Dr Who, u answered u own question. Though I understand u already told everyone marriage. Break off the engagement, cause that is what it is for.
This new guy....snatch that guy up so he don't do the same to my girl.
2007-03-25 03:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by A.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but i would consideren talking to him first
2007-03-25 03:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant understand this question you need grammar and spelling classes,have you also heard about a comma?
2007-03-25 03:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by socermagic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your first sentence answers your question,don't prolong break it off.
2007-03-25 03:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on.
2007-03-25 03:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by *sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
good luck
2007-03-25 03:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by basketball_dancediva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋