Friend problem!!!!!!!?

Question

One of my friend is driving me crazy! whenever i hang out with my other friends, she gets mad at me! I have told her what i feel and tell her to stop getting mad, but she keeps doing it! She gets mad at me every single day! I have tryed and tryed to tell her but it keeps getting worse and worse! She is rude to me too. When i am talking to my friend she pulls me away! I hang out with her 80% of the time. I dont wanna forget my real friends. There is nothing i can do but stop being friends! i have told her so many times that i wanna hang out with other people! Please help me! Thanks!

Answer 1

You may be her only friend. Have you seen here hang out with other people?

Answer 2

ashley, she isn't a 'real' friend. real friends don't try to control your life. real friends don't get angry to the point of embarrassing you in front of others. 80% is more time spent with her than what you spend with everyone else in your life.

you are the only one who will make the ultimate decision. but there are things that could happen if you continue to be friends with somewhat like that. eventually she is going to be telling you who to date, what to wear, etc.

you have already said the same thing to her too many times. if she really cared for you and your friendship, she would back off and apologize to both you and your other friends. don't be afraid of hurting her feelings. either decision you make, she will still make you feel guilty. the only people who should tell you what to/what not to do are your parents. it may not make you feel good at first, but you will eventually. you need to end that friendship now. if she really cares, she will get her act together and chill as a regular friend does. make sure that you let your parents know what is going on. there have been times in which breaking something like this off have become dangerous. i'm not saying that it's what will happen to you, but you need your parents to be aware of what you are into in case they need to step in.

this relationship will determine how you deal with people for the rest of your life, and if or not you are the one in control or if you will allow others to boss you around.

good luck hun.

ps. breaking it off does not make you a bad person (no matter what she says)

Answer 3

this is what everyone on here tells me 'then she really isn't your friend' but that is not what i will tell u ill tell u from personal experience and i will give u some helpful advice i have too many friends like that and they are not worth your time i know u can find better friends then that so good luck with that

Answer 4

well, viewed from other point of view, she misses u a lot when u aren't with her, but whoa if she needs psychotherapy and quickly lol, but well then what's going on with her, she must give u more space, or try to go up with her everyday 'till u suffocate her, so she wants 2 get her space and u got urs, kill 2 birds with one shot, u know like calling her all day long, pass time alot with her and stuff like dat

Answer 5

You're friend is probably feeling left out when you hang out with you're 'real' friends. Maybe invite her to hang out with them too? It's not fun for her to feel alone. Maybe you're her only friend. Even if you don't want to, it's only polite to include her.

Answer 6

put yourself in her shoes... maybe she's lonely and ur the only one she really has to talk to, she's probably never had a friend like u... introduce her to ur other friends so u all can hang out together... dont kick her to the curb just yet!

Answer 7

Just tell her that you want to hang around with otehr people as well as her.
if she dont like that. just tell her to do one.