i just hate where i am now
i mean each and evey bit of it
not because i hate myself
i mean i love myself
its just that the people influencing my life are the very ones ruining it
i cant even get them out of my life because im financially dependant on them
i dont know what to do ??!
and im really gettin furstrated
2007-03-25 02:41:06 · 15 answers · asked by Princess Penguin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This takes a couple of days/ weeks. Are you old enough to get a job and move out? If not start getting a good education/ grades so when you ARE able you can get a god start/job and the move to your own place. If you are smothered by negativity, volenteer for any thing. hospital.....vet......humain society. Go to a park or country road and pick up garbage. It makes you feel like you are contributing, not being sucked from.
2007-03-25 02:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by birdshoecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont mix facts with emotions.You will only ruin yourself.
Your dependency on some(one or more) is a fact. your frustration is an emotion.deal with them one by one. remove your dependency.There are many options for you here as well.What to choose is based on your character and personality. Work is the best as it holds your integrity. You will have explanations to give for this.deal with them maturely.
Frustration is a result of your helplessness. You deal with it in a Simple way. keep a tab of how much success you have achieved over the aboev tasks that you set yourself for. This even includes your work. look at the positive side and relax. then deal with the negative aspects. for eg. you got a job ut cannot convince your fellow to work on it.Then it can still frustrate you. So work on it. And if you are a female then use the ultimate weapon which every man fears...."Nagging". Trust me ....I know it works.
Good luck.
2007-03-25 03:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Satya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can accomplish whatever you put your mind to. Is their a reason why you cannot financially take care of yourself? Can or do you work? Sometimes it's necessary to work a couple of jobs. You should never, ever use other people as a crutch. Your lifes miseries are a result of your own decisions. If you really want to rise above it all, then it's up to you, and only you.
2007-03-25 02:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to become financially INDEPENDENT. As long as someone has that control over you they will use it to their advantage. And you don't need anyone to take care of you, take care of yourself you will feel better about yourself and then you will be able to turn the tables and this person won't have a leg to stand on in the financial department, then, it's just you and them, then you see the relationship for what it truly is
2007-03-25 02:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by amanda m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can ruin your life. You are ruining your own life by being financially dependent on individuals you view as a negative influence. Stop with the frustration crap and focus on your own future. Make a plan and execute. Not rocket science here.
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2007-03-25 02:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what you need to do to support yourself. Call some shelters that help you get back on your feet. It is up to you to work to get where you want to be. Find a friend to live with and get a couple jobs while looking for better ones. You will have to make a big sacrifice to get out of where you are.
2007-03-25 02:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you depend ant on other people financially unless you are under the age of 18. If you are under the age of 18 and you are talking about your parents, you still have to listen to them. If you are over the age of 18, you can get rid of these people by financially taking care of yourself.
2007-03-25 02:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u got to get your self out of the hole u diged your self in make your own money u cant deepen on them for ever start your life get a job start something u wanna do go to school learn a trade just stay away from them
2007-03-25 02:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by dj_ar_bis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mean frustrated (I never heard of someone being furstrated).
Maybe you're sexually repressed? Try having a couple of orgasms a day at the hand of self or others.
2007-03-25 02:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kia A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you letting them influence your life? Sure, there are some situations which there are rules that you must abide by. But, for example, if they keep giving you advice, it is YOU who has control of accepting it or deny it.
2007-03-25 02:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋