i dont know how to start this
i love a guy and he loves me
and asked me to marry him
now im not really sure about my feellings
i mean it might just be a strong crush and with time it might fade away
and if i say no
i willl break his heart
so i don;t know what to do ???
2007-03-25 02:35:45 · 11 answers · asked by Princess Penguin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not say yes until you are sure about your feelings for this guy. Be hoenst wtih him and tell him how you are feeling and that you need some time to sort out your feelings for him. If you say yes this would be leading him on and dishonest and you would ultimatley end up hurting him down the road anyway. Just say you need some time to sort out your feelings and that maybe later on down the road you will know for sure if you love him or not. I am sure he will understand this and respect and love you for his honesty. Do not break up with him just be honest and slow things down a bit. This may hurt him BUT at least you are not playing him and you have been honest with him and have done what is right. If he truley loves you the way he says he does he will be patient and loving and give you the time you need to sort things out. He will understand where you are coming from and he will not push or pressure you into something you are not ready for. True love is spelled T-I-M-E and if it is true love it will stand the test of time.
2007-03-25 02:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Loving someone and deciding to make them your life partner are two very different things. If you have doubt about spending the rest of your life with somebody never make that decision based on not wanting to hurt the other. That is not fair to him. He has a right to a commitment from you and if you are not ready then so be it. Take a step back and discover yourself. You are not ready for marriage with this guy. Perhaps one day you will be.
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2007-03-25 09:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry him if you are not sure of your feelings. Period. Tell him what you have said here. If this is someone you might marry, you should have no secrets from him.
2007-03-25 09:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by MNature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every crisis i believed is to stir me out of my comfort zone to tell me i need to action, it is a milestone to my life though. So i will say it is high time for you to have a silent thought on your long term plan with your guy and tell him how you feel. Cheers.
2007-03-25 09:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to marry him then tell him no! You dont want to marry somebody just because you dont want to break their heart. Otherwise your marriage will be horrible and you will def break up!
2007-03-25 09:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can except for now and mark the date far off to see how your feeling go,it will buy time to find out if you two are in love.
2007-03-25 09:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a time out to think about this more clearly.
2007-03-25 09:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If marriage is a problem - do not get married.
2007-03-25 21:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not sure, it means no and no and not to marry him, tell him the truth so he can find anther girl.
2007-03-25 09:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married.....period!
2007-03-25 09:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by acedelux 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋