I put fecals on her doors&windows,I forgot my earrings in their bed,I let my lipstick on his shirt...horribles letters and phones...what should I do next?i want to make her divorce him!!
2007-03-25 02:25:55 · 33 answers · asked by Angelyna P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You really sound like a winner. So does he. Go and slug it out on Gerry Springer because you sound like a perfect candidate.
He is trash. You are acting like trash. She is being victimized.
Your putting fecal matter around her home is an indication that you have absolutely no respect for the marital state. What you want is not always what you get. Why the heck mess with a married man in the first place?
I hope he does leave her. She does not deserve such utter crap from anyone. You and he deserve each other. However, don't be surprised if you find some other woman's feces smeared around your front door!
Find a man who is free and stop being such a nasty piece of work. I am sure you are capable of being a very nice person and could attract one who is decent and can teach you a bit about faithfulness.
I have never spoken so bluntly in this place but I think someone needs to tell you you are wrong, completely wrong. But so is he. For all you know, he has been using you all along and never planned to leave his wife. Especially if there are children involved. You can never compete with kids.
Girl, you are so unclean!
2007-03-25 02:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You should be totally ashamed of yourself. Listen girl, get your act together and stop the harrassment of your lover's wife. She is the victim in this triangle, not you. This is immoral and you should think that you are destroying his marriage. How can you sleep at night? How can you live with yourself? You dear girl, have become the mistress in the movie, "Fatal Attraction". What a disgrace. Take a look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? I doubt that. Stop this what you are doing and think about the other person you are hurting and the marriage you are destroying. If your boyfriend knows what you are doing and allowing it to go on, then he really in a way deserves a wacko like you. Then one day after you get him, and he marries you, he will do the same thing to you..let's see how you would feel.
2007-03-25 09:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are sick! Fecal matter?! Your actions describe the person you are--dirty, disgusting and something to be expelled from the relationship! Are you forgetting that this is HIS house too that you're smearing? No guy, no matter how much he thinks with his lower extremeties, is going to stay with a girl who would do that! Whatever his wife is like to cause him take on a mistress wouldn't make him trade in for a nut job like you! Seek professional help--you're desperate and I'd hate to see your story made into a Lifetime movie.
2007-03-25 03:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by nancydeanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can not make her divorce him at all and you cannot make him divorce her. You are the one being duped and played her hon. Does she even know about you at all? You cannot make anyone divorce anyone for that matter. You will be much better off without him in your life anyways and you REALLY need to find someone who is single and available who is free and clear to date and be with you. Let him go. You will be a better person for it. He does not love you anyways and he definitley does not love his wife either. He does not even know what love is and neither do you. Anyway why would you ever want to be with him even if he does divorce her as he will do the same thing to you someday that he is doing to his wife now?
2007-03-25 02:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh!!! I can't believe you would actually take a man after he cheats on his wife. What goes around, come around. So remember the same boat that woman is in with that man, you will be in the future. He loves the excitement of sneaking and not getting caught, and even if he divorces his wife you will never be Number 1.
2007-03-25 03:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by carol m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't really fault your actions. In this case, while scummy, low class, and whorish; what you are doing IS in your BF's wife's best interest. Whatever it takes to make her realize that she should divorce her butt hole hubby. If she is truly blessed, she'll be lucky enough to see you and him get together. Then, she'll get to watch how you two slime balls can ruin each other's lives. You and Sperm Boy have a wonderful basis to built a loving, trusting relationship. You both can trust the other to treat each other with the respect and honesty you've demonstrated from the start of your relationship.
2007-03-25 03:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he wanted to divorce her and be with you he would.
Period.
You are picking on the wrong person. You are being malicious and cruel. This women has done YOU no wrong.
It is him that you have a problem with - I would bet that he probably enjoys seeing you do this. Men are cowards when it comes to divorce so he is probably incapable of doing it. Is he encouraging your behavior??
How do you feel about yourself doing this stuff? I bet this can't be too good for your self-esteem.
2007-03-25 02:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are you out in left field, hon. He's not going to divorce her, and she is not going to divorce him.... you are being played for a fool. What should you do next? If this isn't a joke, you should gather up what is left of your self esteem, and evaporate. Then, get some counseling, sweetie.... you have some real problems.
2007-03-25 05:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can't make anyone do anything that they don't want to do, if he were smart he would dump u before u do more harm. why are u attacking the poor wife, why not just ask him, why not find out why, rather than doing all those nasty things to someone who isn't really part of the decision making. but don't be surprised when the bad u have done, comes back in the form of karma to u. if he wanted to leave her for u, wouldn't he have already done that?
2007-03-25 02:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your actions are terribly immature. Think about how you would feel if you and his wife reversed roles. Keep up the crazy antics and the husband won't want to be with you either! What does it say about you if you are willing to do this stuff to get a man who cheats on his wife?
2007-03-25 02:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by MNature 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋