2007-03-25 02:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
great idea… if you want to be miserable for the rest of your days.
2007-03-25 02:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by circusmort 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been down that road before, I'm just happy I backed out of it before it actually happened. If you're not happy, why do you want to get married to someone you don't like and be miserable the rest of your life, plus that could also end up with distrust and cheating in the relationship. I understand that they love you, but tell them you're not ready for this and you don't want to have second thoughts if you get married and it would be better off if it ended right now. I know it's hard to tell someone that, I've been there, but I'm happy I told them cause now I'm with someone who I love very much and I know feels the same about me, plus WE ARE BOTH HAPPY TOGETHER, and that's what really counts, there's already enough misery in the world, don't submit yourself to being in it with a relationship.
2007-03-25 02:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this for a while... you are thinking about getting married to someone you dont like? For a lifetime? basically by doing that you are setting yourself up for a divorce before you are even married. NO you DONT marry cuz someone else loves you, you have to love that person too.
2007-03-25 02:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIVORCE if you don't have love for that person you will eventually end up in court. And why even get married if their is no love? That is why the divorce rate is so high, some people never think before they jump in with blinders on... lol
2007-03-25 02:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live a life with someone that really loves you, but you don't care about/ like them, then you are being completely selfless. Which is just as bad as being selfish. Except you are only thinking about making others happy instead of yourself. If that is the case you really need to sit back and ask yourself "What do I want?" It is ok to do things for yourself and be with who you want. As long as you still think about others. Yes it is bad to be selfish, but it is also bad to be selfless. Find a middle ground. Plus put yourself in her/his shoes. Would you really want to be in a relationship where the other person is just acting like they care about/likes you or really cares about/likes you?
2007-03-25 02:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you get married with someone that you don't love?For money,just because you are attached to that person or because you don't want to make her suffer?You won't be happy!And the person won't be happy either when she/he will find out!
2007-03-25 02:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by sauvage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would not marry them if i did not love them as i should and were only marrying them because they love me. If i have to learn to love them i would not marry them in the first place as love should come naturally and it should not have to be learned. JMHO.
2007-03-25 02:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. Wasn't worth it.
2007-03-25 02:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it!
2007-03-25 02:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋