We were playing spin the bottle, as the bottle landed on me, my bestfriend (guy) asked me: "Who is your crush besides me?"
I was shocked cause, honestly, I have a crush on him eversince we became bestfriends...to my surprise...he knew...we are always together and I really enjoy his presence around and I didn't want to ruin our friendship
So I denied him saying: "I don't have a crush on anyone and what makes you think I have a crush on you?"
He just grinned as my friends started to react the same way as I did
I felt guilty...I wanted to spill it but something is preventing me to do so...any advice...T_T
2007-03-25 00:59:11 · 10 answers · asked by acerbus18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let it be. Do nothing.
2007-03-25 01:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just a crush, right, not love? So don't worry. Telling him that may bring awkwardness but since you've liked him ever since you became friends, there is nothjing wrong. He already knows that you like him. Who said the friendship was spoiled? And not to worry, he'll not care for this after a few days (though it'll be on the back of his mind) unless there's something he feels, too. How about talking to him, he's your best friend, after all. Whether you did right, decide on the above.
2007-03-25 08:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by sweet gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to not want to move on
i understand you may be scared of losing this guy as ur friend bu honestly u lost him along time ago,as soon as u start liking sum1 me than a frend they arent ur frend ane mre u need to work up the courage
at that time u might of been doin the right thing because u didnt beleive it wa the right time to say it but the longer u put it off the less chances u hve
did u ever think the reaon he asked it that way was coz it was a situation that ur not sposed to lie n he may like you n wanted to see if their is ane chance u may like him back???
2007-03-25 08:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was right i mean not telling him that you really like him infront of everyone. I think you should call him and tell him what you really think about him. Cuz maybe he likes you too and you'll have a chance to be with someone you really know. Trust me call him up and see what he says. Be confident while talking to him try not to sound stressful.
Best of luck!!!!
2007-03-25 08:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unreal - u did the very best thing you could have done - Now he wont be so cockey and you have set him a challenge - trust me all guys love a challenge - awesome too that you didnt just hand it to him like he expected - gee I wish I had your insight when I was younger.... GO GIRL - You Rock!!
2007-03-25 08:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by gudsport 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you feel. You'll feel better and maybe he might to^.^
Well ask yourself this, what is preventing you to do so? Your friendship? Well Its better to be honest with friends, no matter what.
So just tell him, but at the same time clearing to him that dont want to ruin your friendship. So just talk to him.
.......also, dont tell him on the phone, it would be best face to face (alone) ^_^
2007-03-25 08:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by CM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ring him up and talk to him about it. If what you say is true about him knowing, then it shouldn't be very hard to talk about. Tell him that you were just shocked and didn't respond the way you wanted to. Just be honest and open.
2007-03-25 08:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by World of Suffering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you did the right thing, don`t make him think you are easy to get, play with him a little bit or make him think u really don`t like hima nad then surprise him, that will make him mad about you.
2007-03-25 08:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lanalee W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know how yall play spin the bottle but here when it land on that person, he are she is the one get the kiss, sound like yall playing truth are dare
2007-03-25 08:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better Stand for it.
2007-03-25 08:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by exo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋