28 months of being in a relationship and then suddenly your partner doubts that yougiving your heart into the relationship because you confide in someone else when you fight because your partner refuses to talk to you! what do i do
2007-03-25 00:22:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we fighting about the fact that i speak to this guy who is my friend that he does not like...
2007-03-25 00:39:05 · update #1
his isecure all of a sudden because one of my friends told him he is lucky to have me and he should hold onto me even though i speak to other guys
2007-03-25 00:40:25 · update #2
When you guys fight, your partner chose to walk away and brew in his own anger. On the bright side, this might not be such a bad thing, because he doesn't want to say anything he might regret later.
Perhaps you could let him know that you care about this relationship enough to ask for advice from friends, and you needed objective opinion to look at the situation clearly.
During better days, try to tell him casually and lightly how you feel when he doesn't want to talk to you after a fight, and how you would prefer to deal with it in better ways.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-25 00:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mae D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing the person you confided in was another male which has upset him. Confiding in a woman is just what women do.
He has to take the blame when he won't talk to you. The other thing is if you confided in someone then how did he find out if the conversation was in confidence.
2007-03-25 07:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your partner and let them know that whenever you do try to confide in them they refuse to talk to you. Let them know how you feel. Sometimes getting outside advice from a wise person can help. I guess it also depends on what you are confiding in this person. Let them know that they are your best friend and if you can't talk to them then who can you talk to??
2007-03-25 07:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by SMILES6184 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him understand the thought you both had an argument nor misunderstanding so, that makes you weak and confide to someone else. but doesnt necessarily means you are cheating on him. just try to let him see the honest truth you are not hiding/doing anything to harm him. tell him how important he is into your life so, you cant do negative thing as such he is accusing you.
2007-03-25 07:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by leoNpari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like being jerked around, beg him to let you back in his life. What my advice would be is to let him know that his attempt at manipulation isn't going to work. You need emotional support, he wasn't available, and you did what you needed (and had a right) to do. Both people in relationship as intense as love need to maintain a life apart from their love and he's not being fair.
2007-03-25 07:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confiding in a MALE then thats WAY wrong of you. If your partner doesnt listen to you, then TELL him! Comminicate to him that he isnt understanding. If your going to confide in ANYONE, then it has to be a girl. Not another man.
2007-03-25 07:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that -- that sometimes, you need to talk about things as well... even when you disagree about the topic, you need to talk it out. sometimes communication is the only thing we need to get a good relationship going. but when the other party isn't willing to communicate, then perhaps it's a relationship headed to a break-up sooner or later.
2007-03-25 07:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by schatz101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him, or leave him if he refuses
2007-03-25 07:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by vdt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek your answer and you shall find out that he is looking at someone else
2007-03-25 07:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Keith M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋