I think that ATTRACTION at first sight exists. How can you love a person without knowing what they are like? True love is when you know a person for who they are, all the bad things and good things that make that person, and you still adore them. Also true love is sticking with someone through thick and thin, which can only happen if you have actually had moments and time with them.... "LOVE at first sight" is just attraction that can lead you to love, but it is not love in itself.
2007-03-24 22:55:10
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answered by ? 2
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i think the love which comes when 1st meet is not a true love hence no one knows about everyone,isn't it? then how will we be able to identify someone who we ever don't know,
it is just said to be a attraction which is more and seems to be a love.that's it &it is not a true love.
1.no the love which comes at the 1st meet doesn't exist mostly.,
2.no it isn't rare, it's mostly happens everywhere.,
3.a true love is which comes after a great deal of understanding, btw two hearts. it gives pain, and also gain.
4.it is not a true love it is just an affection ,that's it dude,.
2007-04-01 22:34:23
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answered by marina 3
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I fell in love at first sight, but this is the term I use to encompass this situation: met a new coworker and began to work with her. In passing in the hallway the very first time, she introduced herself to me and shook my hand, after wards she also smiled at me consistently every time she saw me, she was always nice and courteous to me. Her first smile and handshake make me think of her afterwards and it just progressed from there, that because she was beautiful and consistently nice to me, she encouraged me to smile, always friendly, never flirtatious... overall, I fell in love or what I perceive as love with her. From her perspective, she was just being nice, because she never gave me any indication that she liked me more than a coworker. I believe I put all the random pieces together in my head and formed a picture of love. After 8 months of no longer working together, I left the job, I am finally getting over the intense tug I felt deep within my body every time I even thought of her. In looking back, I don't know what you call the experience I had. Was it love? I don't know, but it was something intense. The only way I can describe it is "love at first sight".
2016-03-29 03:31:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, I have over my 65 years have seen couples that fell in love at their 1st meeting, and still together today. Once they were together, now it's up to each other to Trust, have Faith, and most of all Patience to keep it going. Love's " REAL " meaning is in ll Corinthians 14: The Love chapter. Even if you don't practice Christianity, reading with give you the " true " meaning. I sincerely hope that I have been helpful. Good Luck and God Bless !!
2007-04-01 13:20:00
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answered by fuzzypetshop 4
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i think love at first sight really exist based on my experience. But wait its not me who was love at first sight but my boyfriend. Actually, i cant say it can also be a true love because it really depends on you and your partner.But for me, our relationship is a BLAST! It's ok and we're both happy . We are very at ease to each other's company. True love means respect and honesty. If you're guy respect you and honest with you then i can say he truelly loves you!
2007-04-01 21:28:04
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answered by margareth g 1
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it exists, it's rare.
True love = Best friends, and partners in life who get along nearly all the time, willing to sacrifice for each other.
Love at first sight: You meet someone who fits your subconscious image of the ideal partner. you walk up and talk to them, and it is mutual.
I have had this happen twice in some 40 years
Good luck.
2007-03-24 22:57:50
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answered by A Military Veteran 5
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Not complete Love but atleast d begn of Love does exist @ first sight........Goin by today`s tech world YES its a bit rare........True Love is whn u Love d person wid all his pro`s n con`s n whn d v thght of leavin him or bein far away frm him makes u cry.........Love @ first sight simply means tht u r bowled over by his/her looks n waitin to knw more of him/her to fall completely in Love.....First sight is jst d begn of a beautiful journey called Love
2007-03-24 23:15:17
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answered by Confu$ed G@l 3
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its attraction. But I think that real love comes after knowing the person well that you know he is the right one.
2007-04-01 22:02:04
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answered by trendy_girl 1
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Love at first sight is real. Or can be. Because true love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry.
Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique! There are no hard and fast rules in love. Sometimes love at first sight is true. Sometimes it's not. Sometimes you really love someone you've dated for 10 years. Sometimes you ddon't.
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight.
As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more.
Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them?
Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I have only met twice in the past two years I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet.
Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me.
The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real!
I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should people say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe!
2007-03-25 14:40:21
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answered by nemo 4
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i get this weird feeling. like a warmth.
and then i can never get them out of my head.
and duh its attraction.
2007-04-01 11:44:55
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answered by asparkinmyeye 2
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