Is it not fair for me to?

Question

Cringe, glare at practically every guy I catch staring at me? Most of them look so creepy and are trying to make a point of staring at me, and I find this uncalled for at places like the grocery, hardware shop, etc. I dress classy so it's not a case of anything I'm wearing. Any suggestions on dressing well and getting men to stop staring? What would you think if you were the men receiving the glare after staring at the woman? Thanks

Answer 1

You are so right, I always get this gawking stare from men, like they have never seen a pretty woman. I realize that men only think with just one part of their body. Some can keep it under control, but they are still like the others! I have even caught some previous boyfriends doing the same and I am standing right there! Don't feel bad about giving them the "What the f*** are you looking at" stare. And then they think, "she thinks she is so much better than me" remark back. If you have this feeling, they are obviously not good enough for you or other women. I know, it sucks out there! Just be happy that you can leave and go the hell home later...

Answer 2

You must be incredibly beautiful and alluring. Poor thing (smile). Don't worry, in a few more years your terrible plight will disappear. As a man, I don't remember getting many cringes and glares if my eyes strayed to a particularly alluring form of a woman. They ignored me. I'd rather have at least been noticed ... and glared at. Then I'd feel more powerful about my masculinity ... even a negative reaction seems better than getting passed by unnoticed.

Answer 3

hold your head up high and politely smile, you should be proud that you have such an amazing pull. You don't want a rep of being a b%#*^h and guys do pass around word of mouth. Be proud and not resentful I'm sure it can be annoying but it is great that you get that attention for just being a classy well dressed woman instead of dressing for the attention.

Answer 4

There is nothing you can do short of becoming very homely. Thats just men and it creeps me out as much as it creeps you out, the only thing that helps me is to NOT make eye contact because once you do that no matter how crappy the look on your face it gets worse, if a guy catches you looking at them all of a sudden they assume that we are interested. Yuck. I avoid eye contact with pervs at all costs.

Answer 5

I would probably think "ah oh.....she saw me". If your an attractive girl, then its going to be hard to keep guys from staring at you, no matter what you wear. I guess you could try dressing like an 80 year old woman.

Answer 6

hi.....i think you are beautiful enough to attract any man so no matter what you wear, you will get their attention
I'm not saying that they should stare at you but that's how it goes.... staring is a bad manner and people who do it are impolite...it's never about what you wear or how you look sometimes they just used to do it
have a good day

Answer 7

You can't do anything to stop men looking or staring at you. You must be a very beautiful, sexy and sensuous girl for all the men to admire you. Be proud of it. Just ignore those starings and lookings... YOU CAN NOT STOP IT ANYWAY!!!

Answer 8

As long as they aren't touching you, let them stare. You should take it as a compliment that they are looking at you. I've heard it said best: When we're younger, we try hard not to be looked at as a sex object; when we get older, we just want to be looked at, period. Enjoy it. :)

Answer 9

You must be beautiful to deserve all these stares. Take them as compliments!

Answer 10

Sounds like you hate men, and the potential for sex.

Confront your feelings for your father.