Monsieur X has the following good points:
1. Very attractive, blue eyes and olive skin
2. Muscular body (medium height)
3. Highly educated and on a phd
4. Considered highly humorous and likeable (by other men)
Bad points:
1. Suffers from depression and mood swings
2. Still a student (no money)
Other points of Monsieur X:
1. Comes from an Indian background (3rd generation)
2007-03-24 22:16:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not my type but i am quite sure there's someone out there for him.
2007-03-24 22:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Right, this is my third answer (I saw the questions in reverse order of you posting them).
Attractiveness is subjective, but blue eyes, olive skin, muscular build and medium height are all OK. Highly educated would be a good point for me, I like intelligent conversation (I may be an intellectual snob - sorry). Not sure about the fourth point, do women find him humorous or is he a man's man? If he doesn't talk to women is that due to shyness (cute) or because he thinks us unworthy (bad!)?
Being with a person with depression can be hard work (been there) but I believe that if a couple work together they can get through anything. If this guy exists, he needs to make sure he gets support and help outside his relationship, and I would say make sure he communicates with a girl he is seeing - otherwise she might think she causes the low mood or mood swings.
Being a student, or being poorly paid, and therefore having little money is not a problem for me personally, at least in the short term. Long-term, I would want a partner with whom I could have, and support, a family, so if he was poorly paid that might be an issue. However, as long as he is prepared to contribute in some way (e.g. maybe do more around the house/with children) and is trying to better himself/earn money and does not live beyond his means, I would not find this a bad point.
Indian background I have addressed in my first answer.
2007-03-25 00:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go there!!
I know that sounds harsh. But the one point that you cannot overlook is the Depression and mood swings.
Im living with a 6'5" tall, dark and handsome man. Own business, earns great money.
When he is well, he's great fun and great to be around, but when he is unwell and the mood swings set in, my life is a living hell. An absolute living hell. If i wasnt already in love with him and living with him, and i could turn back the clock..... well......
Be careful and consider carefully the kind of life you want. The mood swings will start to over ride every other good point you can list
Good luck
2007-03-24 22:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he sounds awesome. Looks and brains and a sense of humour! What more could a girl want?
But.... he's not real is he? :(
Being a student and having no money doesnt matter to me. Money isnt everything!!
And with the depression.... i'd soon find a way to cheer him up ;)
2007-03-25 01:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by only_lil_kez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't date men but the fact that he suffers from depression and has no job is a definate turn off to any woman.
would you want to date a depressed woman with mood swings?
I know I dont.
2007-03-24 23:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by mahawi61 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really do not care what a man looks like, to like him. (Or any person I come across for that matter ) As long as he brushes his teeth, take a shower every now and then, treats me friendly and makes me laugh. He`s my kind guy! f (It goes without saying I do the same to him.) grettings from a viking woman in Norway
2007-03-24 22:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by unanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably attractive to someone. beauty is the in eye of the beholder and it all depends. he's not attractive to me but he may be attractive to someone else. humor is a major plus! if he suffers from depression, he just needs to work on it. maybe seek therapy but that's not so bad :)
2007-03-24 22:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dollyrocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "met" him on a dating site, he's probably not as "attractive" as he makes himself out to be. Until you actually see and speak with him, you cannot conclude either way whether you'll be attracted to him or not. Still, those bad points suggest you need to be extremely careful you're not on to a psycopath who is being homed in a half-way house...
2007-03-24 22:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry no, not because of his looks or background but because he is a student. I need a men with a career that can afford a family.
2007-03-24 22:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great guy! Everyone has their "bad points" and being a student is temporay, plus depression can be managed multiple ways.
2007-03-24 22:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Runnin for my life '73 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1-4 good points - doesn't really matter
1-2 bad points ***No. 1 is a big turn off; No 2 - doesn't matter
1 - other points - doesn't matter
Overall Rating: NOT ATTRACTIVE see above***
2007-03-24 22:25:03 · answer #11 · answered by Inday 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋