he is charming..every girl that looked at him will like him..and i'm not a beautiful girls..
2007-03-24 22:13:42 · 16 answers · asked by amalina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please do not tell him that you love him, (it leaves you to open.) play a little hard to get, if he likes you then he will come after you.
2007-03-24 22:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First physical and emotional attraction are not the same thing as love. You are infatuated not in love let's be very clear on that also you will be infatuated many times before you fall in love so take it easy it's a process not a race.
Second, you aren't asking to have his children or anything so just start by saying, "Hi! How are you?" If he responds then there could be an actual conversation. Don't get so excited that you forget to listen to what he says as you do want to respond to any statement that he makes in an intelligent manner. If however, there is no response to your initial conversational gambit it could mean he's busy and or not interested. You may try the same conversation starter a couple days later but a second rebuff is final and should be totally accepted.
Good luck... and remember it is not about looks it is about personality. The woman inside will win them every time.
2007-03-25 05:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all...before you open your mouth, think about how this guy feels about you first? Does he like you more than a friend, or are you just friends? Id say wait..let him come around to telling you or hinting to you how HE FEELS about you first! Cause you may end up pouring your heart out, and this guy may end up not feeling the same way, and perhaps the friendship may end. And hey..if you feel your not beautiful..work with what you do have. There is nothing worse for a guy to hear a women say all the time she is not beautiful. Guys love women with self esteem and confidence. Don't wait for someone to make you feel beautiful..do it for yourself. Seriously..please do!
2007-03-25 05:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
beauty comes from within, do you know this guy well enough to talk to him, if so make casual conversation with him and maybe invite him for a coffee and just flirt a little you will know from his body language if he is interested, there really is only one way to find out and thats asking, if he says no then its not the end of the world and if he is as charming as you say he will not embarass and you will be able to carry on and find the right one for you, but you will never know untill you ask good luck
2007-03-25 05:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Girl,
Don't worry about other girls! worry about yourself! what you do if tell the man/boy the way you feel! Tell him that you love him and that your worried about him because he is charming and what you say your not! but i bet you that he will say you are geogours and that he has the same feelings! don't be scared about firting girls that sit down in the dark smiling at him! if they do i'll have their eyes for.....(just jokeing!!!) goog luck !!!!!!! love you and missing you already!
2007-03-25 05:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u should not tell him because it may ruin ur friendship find an apporiate time maybe over email im 11 and having same situation
2014-01-17 13:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love him when you both have not been together or know each other..? Your beauty is not a question here.. Men normally observe for the beauty of your heart...
2007-03-25 05:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
do not tell him you love him. thats the last thing you should do... hears the thing guys will get with and can love an ugly chick the hard part is to get the guy to give you a chance. in fact ugly chicks tend to be less materialistic and obsesive. just befirend him and let things go slowly. eventually see if he wants to qick it. just don't bang him right away. if he tries then he justs wants to bang you and then it's over.
2007-03-25 05:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by job e 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
fgok that tell him jhow u feel if he doesnt like it then hes crazy.who ares what u look like on on the outside most people say its whats on the inside and thats true.TELL HIM
2007-03-27 04:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well don't chase him..let him come to you..!! Sometimes we don't realize what we have till its gone! He has all these other women then..maybe hes not the one for you.! Some how get him to focus on you! Your special too!! If your really meant for each other you shouldn't feel you have to get his attention... you already have it...so .. work it !!
2007-03-25 05:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋