Is she playing me or not???.....?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

now the other day i asked her to the movies, and she goes"will you be paying?"...well we never ended up going that night since she got really tired, so i took her back home and left.I asked her this week if she would wnna go movies my shout , and she said she wont be going out for at least 2.5 weeks since shes so wasted from study....what should i make of this?.....i feel she is just playing me along now?....what do you guys think?one really odd thing is she talks to me when she needs help, but other than that i have to talk to her first for her to start talking to me.....via txt/msn etc...is she playing hard to get?, or is she just playing me around....im thinking of not saying anything to her and see how she reacts?

Answer 1

------seems like she is a very nice girl---your both young---go out with other girls----if your meant to be --it will happen---good luck-------------

Answer 2

The whole oly initiating convo when she has issues is odd. I'll give you that. Other than that bit I think she really likes you. Man, take her out, let her know by your actions how you feel. Try and make a move a few times, if you get rejected a time or two, move on, but I'm pretty sure she's liking you. Granted I feel your caution, too many women either gold digging or looking for an emotional crutch. Women though when in a ituation like she is, studying and such tend to not think about sexuality and relationships like men. Two things though is a woman who will get close to and touch a man is generally interested (women aren't as agressive like that) and a woman who will fall asleep even if for just a bit when near a man...oh thats a good sign.

Answer 3

take it from me. she's looking at you as a prospect. if you really like her, go for it! :D

Maybe guys around the world should listen to Jojo's new song- "how to touch a girl". Some pointers there from the horse's mouth, so to speak.

Maybe just give it a try, if she likes you, then good, if she doesn't, then learn from it. Life ain't perfect, I'm going through a similar situation as yours, albeit a little more weird, and I'm as stumped about his actions as you are with hers.

I was very honest with the guy i'm err... ok the guy whose moved up the charts to take precedence over the other people in my life now, and well, honesty does pay off alot. Things may turn out awkward, but i believe if she really likes you too, honesty will make the situation better.

Answer 4

You are just dating. get a new girlfriend or girlfriends. Dating is all about finding a mate. If you only date one, then how are you going to know what the others are like?

Answer 5

I DON'T SEE NO WRONG DOINGS ON HER PART...2.5 WEEKS AWAY FROM YOU DOES NOT CONCLUDE HER PLAYING WITH YOUR MIND...SEEMS SHE MAY ANNOY YOU BUT YOU STILL LOVE HER ATTENTION..MAYBE SHE IS GIVING YOU SIGNS TO MAKE A MOVE ON HER..YOU SAID SHE TOUCHES YOU AT TIMES..SIT CLOSE TO HER AND SLOWLY,SLOWLY MOVE YOUR HANDS FROM HER THIGH UP PASSING HER VIRGIANA AND JUST A BIT LOW ON HER NAVAL AREA...LADIES LOVES THAT FEELING THERE...IF,SHE DOES NOT RESIST A MINUTE LATER..THEN,IT MEANS THE GATES OF HEAVEN IS OPEN FOR YOU...DON'T RUSH TOWARDS THE GOLDEN GATES,FEEL AND EXPLORE SLOWLY INTO HER..MAKING HER KNOW THAT IT IS YOUR EXCITING MOMENT WITH HER...DO THAT AS YOU ARE KISSING HER GENTLY ON HER LIPS.....DON'T MAKE THIS MOVE INSIDE A VEHICLE,SOME LADIES FEEL INSECURE INSIDE A VEHICLE...RENT A HOTEL SUITE FOR ONE NIGHT A PLACE WHERE SHE WILL FEEL WORTHY TO OPEN UP TO YOU....ALSO,KEEP IN MIND WHEN SHE STAYS AWAY FOR A WHILE FROM YOU CAUSE OF HER STUDIES..DON'T GET MAD OR THINK WRONGLY..SHE WANTS TO MAKE HER PARENTS HAPPY AND MAKE THEM THINK SHE CAN HANDLE RESPONSIBLITIES...DON'T ADD PRESSURE TO HER,BUT ADD LOVE,HONESTY,AND SECURITY.....WHEN SHE ASK YOU IF YOU WILL PAY FOR THE MOVIES,MAYBE SHE WANTS TO HELP YOU PAY..BUT,DON'T MAKE IT A HABBIT FOR A LADY TO PAY MOST OF THE TIME...THAT'S WHAT I MEANT ABOUT SECURITY,MAKE HER FEEL THAT SHE IS WITH A MAN WITH RESPONSIBLITIES,NOT A BUM OUT GUY SITIING AT HOME DOING NOTHING..........THERE YOU GO ON MY THOUGHTS.....YOU DO ALL AND CARRY YOURSELF MATURELY...I AM VERY SURE SHE WILL ALWAYS ANNOY YOU WITH MUCH LOVE.....hehehe....IT'S ALL GOOD

Answer 6

I'm stumped. She does seem kind of wierd.