On meeting a decent guy..Uh..that is so sad.
2007-03-24 21:20:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been skinny and fat..both ways...I thnk it's def. more difficult to find someone when one is heavier..however, most men are shallow and only care about what women look like until about age...30, then they aren't having any luck at finding Barbie so the start to "lower there standards" I know bad choice of words, but this is exactly what I have heard out of there mouths, they well, come to the realization that the world doesn't look like Pam Anderson and that the average women is a size 14 if not larger...we as women should take care of ourself and get out butts on the treadmill. Easier said then done. Unfort. in society today, a women's weight determines if she is over looked for a "in public" job or even a promotion. Unfort, a huge # of the American population is overweight....why is this...bottom line...it's less expensive to buy food that is "not" good for you compared to "healthy/fresh" foods. Example, you can get a bag of chips for 99 cents...what fruit or veg can u get the same amount for the same price..Insane right...Ok, I know I'm off topic a abit, however it is something I feel so strongly about. Don't stress grasshopper your price charming will come along and in the while your waiting....go to the gym...u never know if he will standing next to you trying to lose some weight too. My father once told me..."You have to be the best can of peas on the shelf" I'm sure u get this...there are so many females out there that have kick *** personalities and hot bodies to compete with for attention from the opp. sex, that all people men and women should be the best cans on the shelves! :) If you are happy the way you are then..don't change...this is your life, you have one shot at it, make it GREAT! :) Live the way you want to, and if mr. right doens't come along, then I'm shouting "It's his loss DAMNIT!" GO get them GIRL! SHake what your mama gave ya!
MUAH! JILL
2007-03-24 21:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by a a a a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is going to know what BBWs stands for, so you might want to clarify it. Is it either "Big black women" or "Big beautiful women"? It doesn't matter which one, there is someone for everyone! It's all a matter of finding that person because they might be living in another state! I would join a dating service online especially for big women looking for a guy. I'm sure they have them. Some are probably free, too. Just don't give up, there's a man out there who's right for you! Good luck.
2007-03-25 04:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Gayle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah that's not true, Maybe you're just not looking in the right places. Now days a lot of men prefer big women over the sickly looking skeleton women that the media likes to portray as "sexy". Only a shallow jerk would turn down a woman just because she isnt 90 pounds, and those guys arent worth dating anyway. I've met plenty of nice, sweet men who love big women, just keep looking, you'll find a nice, sweet guy who'll love you for who you are. Dont change yourself just to get a man. Any man who wants you to do that, isnt a real man to begin with
2007-03-25 04:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dani 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no decent guys we think about it 24/7 specially the young guys. so if you want somebody who'll pass for decent try older guys unfortunately most of them are married.
2007-03-25 04:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by ringo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totaly disagree they have a chance like every other woman because each woman have something nice in here i mean even if she was big but history tought us that Big woman are always with a great since of humour
2007-03-25 04:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Reasonable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big Breasted Woman or do you mean Big Beautiful Women? Doesn't matter to me either way. If she is happy with herself then I am too.
2007-03-25 04:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Robert L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely disagree. I have several friends who are overweight and have awesome spouses. As a matter of fact, my friend Wendy (my old college roommate) has as close to an ideal marriage as you can have. He's a great man who cherishes her as she does him. :)
2007-03-25 04:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. U R wrong. I love my burgers thick and juicy. Perk up, buttercup. You just need to find the right guy.
2007-03-25 04:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive met a few guys that like big girls (like me) but they r few and far between. Those skinny crack whore lookin chicks r always going to win. unfortunately
2007-03-25 04:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by greenvy78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no problems with BBW's... :D i prefer personality over body type... ;)
2007-03-25 04:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋