Ok so I have known this girl for about a month, we pretty much act like a couple, we hold hands and kiss publicly and have even become intimate in more than one occasion. She has told me that she likes spending time with me and she likes me, and even told me that I make her happy. But when we first me she said she didnt want a relationship due to the one she had just ended with a guy she had been seeing for about a year... I am so confused I really like her but I dont want to get hurt. Do you think she may have changed or is changing her mind in regards to relationships? We are both in college.
2007-03-24 20:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by JIM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it does seem that way, doesn't it? I'm sure she realizes that just because one guy does something wrong it doesn't mean the next guy will. You say and think things when you are hurt but time heals and so does having a nice guy around. She's probably getting the ideal she can trust you and you can take care of her. Remember, it's a woman prerogative to change her mind. :)
2007-03-24 20:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jim, Jim, Jim... She is being crappy and non-commital to you because she is hurt and you are her rebound guy. U know what a rebound guy/girl is? Someone who is there to give love, affection, and more... and when they are over being hurt, they leave. She might stay with you for the rest of her life, but mabey not... know this, be ready for the pain of her leaving, and know that you are the one person in the world who could be there to give her love when she needed it and realize how lucky you are to be that person. Don't hate her for the pain, deal with it, get over it, let go, be friends until you naturally grow apart and go your own ways, and always tell her how important your relationship with her is/was and the 2 of you will always be connected emotionally and together and the 2 of you always knowing that there is someone out there who loves you will mean more than all the money in the world and u 2 will know each other again in a better place than this.
After my worst realationship ever I stopped talking to my ex completely and moved into a flat with a couple waitresses and I started sleeping with one of them and she would tell me that she knew she was my rebound girl and she was happy to do it. We moved out after only a few months and stopped seeing each other but we would still be very friendly and even affectionate when we would run into each other... To this day I think she is an angel sent straight from heaven to be there for me. She was perfect and exactly what I needed at that point in my life and I was lucky as hell to have her. You don't have to hang on to her or feel hurt, used, etc. The only thing that really matters is love. Everything else eventually fades away.
2007-03-25 03:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you don't want to get hurt. But if you like her so much, your main concern should be whether she(!) gets hurt again or not.
There is a big potential in this relationship if you become more concerned with the other person's well-being than with your own.
2007-03-25 03:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Theres a good chance she did. Maybe youve shown her not all guys are dix...if not give her a little time.
2007-03-25 03:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out dude... take it easy your already into deep to not be hurtif she isn't reasdy, but sounds like she is. if she enjoys you that much she will forget about what she said befor. chances are she told you that befor she realised she liked you...
2007-03-25 03:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by letsget_dangerous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋