How do you be "just friends" with a guy you are extremely confortable being with? I am puddy in his hands when ever he's around. I feel like saying "Yes Master" to whatever he says. It feels like my clothes are melting off my body when he smiles. I'm hopeless. LOL! I can talk to him and everything, but it's torture to just be with him and just be friends....This is worse than my atraction to John. LOL! Any advice? I tried to avoid him for a while and he called me wondering what happened to me because he hadn't seen me in a while. And I thought: DOH! I'm trying to forget you
2007-03-24 20:09:18 · 3 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He won't let me date him. Waaa!
2007-03-24 20:15:21 · update #1
best be up front and honest .........you might try an 'in-be-tween' to speak for you if you can be in person
2007-03-24 20:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that way, then tell him. but if he doesn't feel the same, don't push it. because you don't want to ruin what you have.
from experience dating a very close male friend: it is not for sure all you may dream of. especially if you break up, because you want to preserve your friendship and that is not always easy to do, especially soon after breaking up. (sorry, not trying to be a downer, just something to think about!)
anyway, good luck, and hopefully he's up for sparking something sweet between you two!
2007-03-24 20:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by bdazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's sexual tension in your mind.
Just date him and be done with it, assuming you are not married.
2007-03-24 20:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋