She seems to be one of those people that isnt too sure about themselves but yet i cant help but be attracted and feel that at times she seems to respond to my advances positivly. is it because she's just trying to be friendly? Im confused and i want her to still be friend even after this stuff
2007-03-24 19:57:04 · 7 answers · asked by Confused with a passion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is afraid of relationships period or just wants to be single, or afraid of getting hurt. take it slow maybe even tell her how u feel and see what she want's to do about u have to leave it in her hands if it's true she likes u then she will come to the middle.sign baby gurl... good luck....
2007-03-24 20:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by nellys_gurl_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally used to be like that with any guy I liked. I would get scared of their advances and interest. I like to be the agressive one and the one to start the relationship. Then I could show interest and get a response. For some reason I believed that if i started it and they responded then I knew they really liked me. It seems silly and childish now but back then it made sense. Try backing off and just being her friend. If she shows interest then let her persue you. Maybe shes unsure if your interest is true. Good luck!
2007-03-24 20:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its also depends on how long you two have been friends. She could be hesitant on pursuing a relationship with you because she doesn't want to hurt the friendship you two already have. If you feel the same way, it may be in the best interest for you two not to pursue it. Because if it doesn't work out, its hard to go back to being just friends.
2007-03-24 20:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Willy Wonka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just like the attention but might not like you romantically or might like you but not be ready for a relationship.
So my advice would be to move on to someone who likes you 100% of the time. Unless you like the headtrip. Or your both Geminis and find this sort of behavior normal and exciting.
2007-03-24 20:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by DeliberateAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to have her as a true friend . so its time for u to be a friend to her first and stop making advances sometimes less is better she needs to build trust first so enjoy her friendship and let things take its path
2007-03-24 20:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by mario f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always stop playing games and tell her how you feel. If she likes you she will say so. If not she will say so. Either way you will live another day and get over it.
2007-03-24 20:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Robert L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is worried about looseing you as a friend if it doesnt work out between you two.
2007-03-24 20:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by LiL_MaMa_1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋