I am out of the dating game quite awhile. Only because I have been in bootcamp, and lots of other training. I am looking for a nice,pretty girl. But the kicker is, I have been hurt alot in past relationships. I need some advice to help me get back in the dating game. Whenever I see a really pretty girl I get tongue-tied, and just plan dumb. Because I feel like any good looking girl is outa my leauge. Ever time I get the courage to do anything time just runs out and I have to go somewhere else. So please help me. PLEASE!!!
2007-03-24 19:13:18 · 9 answers · asked by paco_46 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
isnt that strange your afraid of love but youve gone through bootcamp...funny how strong feelings are. just relax and take your time. maybe wait for the girl to approach you that way you know shes interested in you. or hit the town with some friends that always is more relaxing when your with people you know.
2007-03-24 19:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought I was that pretty when I was in high school. I really thought I was ugly. Then about a year later I got hit on constantly. I couldn't understand why until one of the guys told me that I was hot but he felt a little the same way you did like I was out of his league. If you keep at it and just try to have fun with some one no serious relationship yet then you should be able to find someone. Not all pretty girls act like snobs and some of them don't even know they are pretty like I did. So all you got to do is ask out the girls you want to. Don't worry about being shut down. I think if you look confident you will succeed in being that way. Girls like that. As for being hurt in the past... use it as the fuel to light the fire under your a** to just go out and have fun. You will feel better.
2007-03-24 19:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by QTforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get the courage to ask , Just cause a girl is pretty doesn't mean she is going to diss you, I am not sure what you look like but you sound like a good guy, and able to hold your own, Love is a challage and sometimes lesson. The thing is God has someone for everyone and he also has a plan for you when you meet that person. other relationships that have hurt you are tests , and lessons you have to learn in order to prepare you for the one he has planned for you, certainly one day with out notice nor concern or when you are at least expecting it that woman / girl will come into your life, Your pain should not be looked at as a bad thing but you should take that lesson and learn from it, and try to prevent yourself from making those same mistakes, don't close your heart to love or the women in your life yes women can be mean and hurtful, but so can men, each one of our souls feed off of love and with in that love we grow and learn and experiance things we would not otherwise have with out love, So instead of dwelling on the pain of past relationships, think otherwise that they are your tests and your lessons prepareing your for that one and only. Above all don't ever be afriad of rejection from any girl, as she I can 100% tell you that she to has her own demons and fears inside of her, those pretty girls you let go because your fear could of been a great test or lesson, an experiance, Women are just as scared as men when it comes to rejection, we just do not let it show as easy or we show it differantly then you men, next time you see a girl/woman that strikes your interest Don't think just Do ...... thinking will prevent you from something that might be wonderful,and noone is to blame but yourself, so don't think just walk up to her and start talking don't use lines, just be yourself, talk to her as if you have known her all your life and she is an old friend, and that you want to know what she has been up to ... above all do not fall into dought, you will surpise yourself when you try this as I will tell you women love men with confedence and senitiveity as well as someone who is bold dareing and interested in them, talk about her and let her know you want to know about her, and the things she likes to do, or even just talk casually with her about the night at hand, if she is haveing fun, if she would be interested in haveing a drink or lunch with you, maybe give her a note women love men who write notes, just don't think!
2007-03-24 19:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the girl is "really pretty" she probably is out of your league. But take heart my friend, the vast majority of girls marry below their league, so you'll be fine.
If you need some icebreakers, I would suggest learning some simple magic tricks. I suggest the Jaw Droppers DVD set.
2007-03-24 19:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through that... it's tough, but believe me when it's the one special girl ur willing to share ur everything with, at least u cud ask a girl out by writing or e-mail, n if that grl said no, it's their faults, not urs... They r the one missing out on a great guy like u....
2007-03-24 19:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by RaghdaSweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of the past. Guilt will bury you if you live in memories.
It's tough getting hurt but believe in healing and learn to laugh I mean really let out some rip-roaring laughs... it helps to ease the stress.
2007-03-24 19:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by gedaclue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...I hear where you are coming from. Everyone gets nervous when they see someone cute. It's okay to be nervous. Some girls think it's cute when a guy is nervous. Next time just try your best and even if your nervous just go for it.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 19:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by PWD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me up...but no really, just try to let go of the past and move on. Everyone gets hurt sometimes...dont let it ruin your life.
2007-03-24 19:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off act like you've gotta set & STOP P*SSN out just walk up to the next pretty girl you see & say what's on your mind!!!
hope i helped
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
2007-03-24 19:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋