what do i do when i find out the guy i have been seeing has a girl friend. he told me he didnt want to date cause he hates relationships, which so do i, and i just found out hes had a girl friend. its been 7 months of us just hanging out and hooking up. i really like him and i can tell he really likes me. is it worse if the guy starts seeing another girl after hes been seeing you or if he starts seeing you after hes been seeing someone else?
2007-03-24 18:50:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also neither one of us really made it clear where this was going so am i alowed to get mad at him when we never really said we couldnt see someone else?
2007-03-24 19:03:18 · update #1
If your just in for the sex which it sounds like you are, then either continue on as if nothing happened or end it and find somebody new. He obviously doesn't love his girl friend or he wouldn't be cheating on her. Are you sure he's not messing around with other girls besides you?
2007-03-24 18:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are wrong. Are you worth more???? Have you been hooking up with someone else while still seeing him? I'm guessing you are all kinda young, and if so, you do want to keep all your options open. But if you really like this guy, don't you think he should respect you, or at most respect the first girl he was with? Does this other girl know that he is seeing other people? Lots of questions, and you and your guy are the only ones that can answer them. Just don't get yourself hurt in the process. Good luck
2007-03-25 01:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case, if you're looking for some sort of serious relationship, and aren't just looking to casually date, this is definitely a bad thing either way, beleive me, I know from experience. If you really do like this guy and you find it difficult to just let it go, you could just confront him in a friendly manner about it, but I find that this doesn't help often either, but it has before. Good luck, and I hope whatever resolve you get from this will make you happy in the end.
By the way, check out my latest question, and if you have anything that might help, please feel free to respond, thanks :)
2007-03-25 01:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by jjesuil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's cheating on her with you. That makes you the 'other woman'. Wouldn't you rather have someone who is loyal? This guy doesn't know what he wants.
2007-03-25 01:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, and move on, he's a player.
It's bad, either way.
2007-03-25 01:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋