about 5 months ago my girlfriend started working in the same place I work at. she is actually on a temporary visa from her country. she leaves in 5 months, and I don't know if I should open my heart for her. we hooked up about 1 and a half months ago. we just started dating, but I don't know if I should let myself fall in love with her and then lose her in 5 months. what do u think?
2007-03-24 18:40:35 · 13 answers · asked by dave s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont think about it. if you love her then love her.
2007-03-24 18:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a tough one. Kinda like that old saying, "It's better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all."
It all depends on you and how you feel about the quote that I just wrote. Do you agree with it? Personally, I don't. If I lost my husband now I don't know what I would do. I would have rather never loved him then to love him and lose him. Does that make sense?
Anyways, it is all up to you. Do you think that you can fall for this girl and just let her go? Or would it be easier to just be friends? I can't tell you what to do because you and I are two totally different people and therefore have two totally different hearts. But I do wish you the best of luck in making this decision.
2007-03-24 18:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kristy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she leaves in five months...what are you gonna do? Blow a chance for love and great memories because she's leaving?
Life is full of decisions just like this one. Go for it. Enjoy the time you have together...make as many memories as you can because when she's gone, they'll sustain you. Be brave enough now to love her and be loved and risk the pain of separation later.
Besides, when she leaves, it won't necessarily mean the relationship is over. There's e-mail, phone calls and you can always fly coach.
Go for it.
2007-03-24 18:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say to follow your heart and your heart would not lead you a stray ...however in this case, be careful on your decision, because your heart could end up being broken, do to the long distance that is coming. Even though you like this girl, my opinion is to stay as close friends and see where that leads. I believe you will be looking at a broken heart if you so choose to carry on this relationship. However, dont lead her on, if you choose to just be friends, do tell her and explain to her the reason why you choose to be friends.
2007-03-24 18:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dawnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, if your heart tells you to do it.. then do it. My sis in law fell in love with a guy from Chilli, and she is from Australia! Now they are married! Things might work out... take a chance
2007-03-24 18:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by sharls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's old and corny, but it just might be worth thinking about -
"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"
Go to it, man.
2007-03-24 18:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter, go visit her in her country,
if you really like that girl, then eloped, maybe
she can stay awhile in this country.
2007-03-24 18:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your heart has a mind of its own! So difficult to control.
2007-03-24 18:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, that you should or you shouldnt. I don't know, but if you really like / love this person, you should wait fo her. Its up to you. I was just giving you my opinion.
2007-03-24 18:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Siti Sarrah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you think shes worth it then go for it. your love will keep you guys together. whether its writing calling or visiting eachother. just hope that she's willing to care for you just as much. good luck!
2007-03-24 18:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might lose her for 5 months, but gain her for life.
A ship in port is safe. but that is not what ships were built for. << study this
2007-03-24 18:44:01 · answer #11 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋