I just basically got dumped today. She told me that she wasn't ready for a relationship, because she got out of one not too long ago. She says she still wants to hang out and talk and be friends. I really like this girl a lot. She is the girl of my dreams. Anybody have any suggestions on what to do? I'm pretty sure sulking and listening to matchbox 20 songs untill i cry isn't healthy. I haven't eaten solid food for going on 3 days. I had a piece of pizza today, but I couldn't keep it down. I just feel so destroyed and have no idea how to deal with it.
2007-03-24 18:25:08 · 15 answers · asked by dragonman343 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move On!
Its Not like she has the last Vagina on Earth!
2007-03-24 18:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all i'm so sorry, i know how a broken heart feels. She broke up with u, not because of ne thing u did or ne thing about u, but because she didn't wanna hurt u in the long run, so she told u she wasn't ready for a relationship right now. Who knows, she could be ready later and want u back. If not u will heal over time, it takes a while and its really hard but u will move on. Again I'm really sry and i hope she can c that u are a great guy and take u back when she is ready. You can email me too if u want to talk about this more or about other problems u might have. Hope i helped.....
P.S. my email is kissingislove@yahoo.com
2007-03-24 18:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this scenario:
On a beach, out somewhere in the dark, alone on the sand is a person sitting with a wireless laptop wondering the same thing.
Sad, confused, hurt, and thinking about a man five years ago, who she felt was a soulmate with. She's finding solace by writing on "Yahoo! ANSWERS" and answering your question.
Then you look up at the stars and wonder, with Moon present, if all this will ever change.
Eventually in time, you will live, but for the moment, embrace the sorrow. Because if love hurts real bad now, you and I will have to remember that it was a great feeling we both experienced.
It's better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all.
2007-03-24 18:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house. If you've been crying for three days, stop. You've cried long enough. Breaking up hurts because of the rejection and you're grieving over a relationship and person you miss. It happens to everyone. The best way to get over it is to stop thinking about it and get on with your life. Get out of the house. Go to the gym and work out. Take a night class somewhere. Volunteer on weekends. Do SOMETHING! But there is nothing to be gained by sitting around crying and not eating for three days. There is no resurrection coming!
2007-03-24 18:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here comes the cliche...."time heals all wounds." It's true brother. Here is the up side...a day will come when you come across her in public and you will feel nothing. You are over her...joy of joys ...you don't hate her, you have fond memories of her, but you do not care what she has been doing. You listen politely, but you don't really care.
Now in the interim, try to stay busy. Make yourself go out. You do not feel like it, do it anyway. Sitting around solves nothing. The thoughts of "I'll never have another girlfriend, or I'll never love anyone like I loved her" will pass. You will be surprised at what is ahead. Get your confidence back...girls like confidence.
2007-03-24 18:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by nostromobb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For all I know, this sort of pain is part of the universal human experience. I don't know many people that haven't been crushed beyond recognition by a break up. Give it lots of time and stay busy. It's okay that it hurts like hell. It's supposed to.
2007-03-24 18:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo f*uck her, stop whinning, my philosophy is tha when you cry over a girl, you are putting way to much into it and you lose control. Find someone else or just enjoy being single, i've been where you have, and talking to her does help a little but dont it will only make things worse. A lot. So try not to be around her. Yes i know its not really nice but for your sanity you really should.
2007-03-24 18:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you ask me it's cause of the history. You remember the memories shared. My advise : LOSE the sad soooooooongs! Go out, have a life, and maybe you'll meet someone more special --- your SOULMATE, your PERFECT MATCH, your EVERYTHING or whoever she can be. Dreams are just illusions until you make it real, so it won't be real unless she likes you back.
2007-03-24 18:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, I feel for you. I have been in this same situation for some time and it really does hurt. Counseling has helped as has networking with friends and just allowing myself to grieve.
2007-03-24 18:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by mysti_gal11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that, you have my sympathy. I know how hard it is to breakup with someone who wants to be friends and hang out. I want more than friendship myself with someone who makes my heart flutter, my stomach jump and mouth water. You have to let it go. Life on life's terms baby.
2007-03-24 18:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about that person it's gonna hurt. It will take time for your heart to heal, but you might always care about this person.
2007-03-24 18:27:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋