they're cocky, clueless, immature, and just not the rite guy. i've been looking for a sweet boy but i just can't seem to find one that isn't a butthead. explain this to me!
2007-03-24 18:14:35 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I am under 25 and I don't believe I am a butthead. Anyway about your question, guys can be cocky either they either think that they are so good or they are trying in a vain attempt to get a girls attention. Have you noticed that the male species of many animals fight each other or act cocky just to get a girls attention. Some guys can be clueless either becuase they are dumb, on drugs or they just plainly do not pay attention to what anybody says. Guys can be immature as well sometimes guys are just like that. they are not always the right guy cos most of them worry about looks too much or only just care about sex. You sound like a nice person and i am sure you can find a sweet guy who loves you for who you are and is also not cocky, clueless or imature. Oh and about the 25 thing it's just that some guys need time to settle down and become sensible.
2007-03-24 18:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They reach 25 and they still are cocky, clueless, immature and childish...but just not as often. Guys think completely different than we do. My boyfriend seems to be perfect 70% of the time, dumb 10% of the time and childish 20% of the time. I know this sounds rather gay but my boyfriend is a college cheerleader and he acts SO immature with is cheerleading friends but when I'm around him, he proves that he actually CAN respect a woman. His friend's gf's have given him compliments on how great he treats me. He's 19...so he has his had on his shoulders right. They're out there...just far and few between.
2007-03-24 18:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking in the wrong places.
When I was 19, I was in the military, guarding explosives with a shotgun, ready to give my life for my country, if our base was attacked.
Look in comic book stores. They might be immature, but they're not cocky nor generally agressive.
Go to any library. See and talk to people studying.
Do not look in places where guys are in big groups, especially at sports, they will show off for each other, doing all this stuff you say you hate.
Go to a place where they are giving language lessons or music lessons like piano.
The secret is write down the qualities you like, and figure out what type of guy will be that. What job will he be doing. Then follow those people, look for people doing those jobs.
Go to a volunteer firehouse, and volunteer, tell them you want to help out. In the process you'll meet people. Lots of guys with raw courage to be found there, of all ages. And not generally bullshitters. Cocky, maybe, but good guys.
Private airports, you will meet pilots. Even if you just go there to say, Hey, I am interested in taking flying lessons, what's it cost, etc etc. You don't have to get the lessons, of course, or you might. Just go and see, and maybe you meet some young pilots. Or older ones. I mean, these guys own PLANES. Okay?
Good luck.
2007-03-24 18:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not all guys, but the ones that you find interesting enough to use in your sample pool. Most of the mature guys that are of that age are busy getting their life on track. You know getting a job, finishing college, that kind of thing.
Age does mellow out men, but it does take a while. Once we learn that it's not about us all the time and more what you have to offer, our prospective changes. Unfortunately we learn this due to the failures in our lives more than any other source.
2007-03-24 18:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that only men under 25 are this way, then you're sadly mistaken.
This also applies to both men and women older than 25 also. While age can play a factor; personality, values, morals and decency are what needs to be questioned.
2007-03-24 18:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a medical Standpoint, all of us humans, the brain isn't fully developed till about the age of 25...... that's why they have been talking about raising the age limit for Drinking, as well as some of the retarded things we all did when we were young (including me)
Hope this helps!
2007-03-24 18:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? I find the same thing is true for so many women under 25. Stuck-up, clueless, vain, full of themselves, intersted in dating immature cocky, clueless bad boys and jocks.
2007-03-24 18:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Underground Man 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Guys and gals both in their twenties think primarily of themselves and only themselves. the twenties are our most selfish years while growing up. it's the "ME" decade. altruism is and acquire talent and one that is learned actually much earlier in life but doesn't become part of our genetic personality until our late thirties or forties. the ability to put ourselves in the places where others are at and read the signs others send out to us, and there are many, again is a talent to be learned. a life lesson if you will. usually if you don't have it by the time you're out of those twenties and into your thirties, you'll never have it and will be considered one of those "jerks" we all know. whether we live with them, work with them or know them in other ways. in other words you'll become one of those people we all like to avoid.
2007-03-24 18:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by sluggo5661 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men start maturing after they reach 30. So may be you should take a look at the guys of this age group. Good luck!
2007-03-24 18:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by EP 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i am not, i am a real niceguy, but no chick wants to date the nice guy they want the one you have problems with, if you realy wanted a nice guy then look to the one behind you not infront of you, you know the "fat" or "ugly" one cuz they are the nice ones that wont be jerks
2007-03-24 21:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by Nice guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋