i like my bffs ex!? help.?

Question

my best friends for 3 years.
she started dating this guy, but she broke up with him.
they hated each other at first.
and now they just dont talk.
and i've developed a major crush on him.
im seriously crushing hard.
how do i tell her?
should i tell him?
i mean i've got no clue as to if he likes me back.
he also is like my best guy friend so i dont want to wreck our friendship.
and you know wait for me after classes, annoys me on purpose, and flirts.
sometimes he like zones me out?
is that bad?
i need majorrrrrr help.
pleaseandthanks.

Answer 1

This is NOT going to be what you want to hear.........
One just don't go there unless she is cool with it. So you would need to speak to her first.
Two... there must be reason she broke it off... think about it.
Three... if he is already playing "give you attention when I wanna" game.... then why bother?
Four.. you are friends and it isn't always the best idea to date a good friend! Best just to keep it as friends for everyone involved sake.

Answer 2

Life is full of tough decisions... this is one of them. You have to pick one, and let go of the other. Are your feelings for this person really that deep? What will you wish you would have done when you look back 20 years from now. If you are really in love with this guy, go for it and get ready to move on and look for a new friend, if not, you'll get over the guy and keep the friend.

Answer 3

Babygirl one thing i had to learn in life is love have no boundaries. If being around him makes you happy, and you cant wait til the next time you see him, or just the silly little things he do make you smile, then you already know your answer. If your best friend love you she would understand that seeing you happy is important and just becasue it didnt work out between them doesnt mean that it wont between you and him.You should never compromise your happiness for someone else. Peoples opinions are just that their opinion in the end you have to make your own decision and choose what is best for you. All ways follow your heart!!!!!

Answer 4

Talk to your best friend about it.If u guys are best friends..u should be able to share almost everything with her.Dont go too obvious.Just ask her what kind of guy would be good for u she thinks..and perhaps u can give some hints and see if she's okay with it.By any means..give it some time..with time..she'll get over him totally and she wont have a problem.good luck:)

Answer 5

my buddy went in direction of a similar element! verify with your BFF if she nevertheless has thoughts for him she would desire to assert no and thenget mad in case you're saying specific to her ex! so then next ask her if it may worry her in any respect in case you went out with him for the reason which you like him and notice how she reacts and pass from there! stable success!

Answer 6

if he waits for you after classes, annoys you on purpose, and flirts with you, I'd say the chances that he really likes likes you are very good

you'll have to tell your gf sometime, she might appreciate your honesty in telling her sooner rather than later

good luck :)

Answer 7

if he waits for u annoys u flirts stuff like that he likes u tell ur bff that she has to accept that you like him dont tell him but find a way to give him hints and its kinda bad about zoneing you out

Answer 8

well first thing how you can know that theyre really planning to break up eachother . doesnt mean that theyre are 100% hateing eachother if theyre not talkin eachther. still maybe youre friend still has feelings of her ex boyfriend no matter what happen. but i would just wait for a while til its really over for them . and if you cant handle it then i think its not good ideas to ask the guy out for adate yet . but plus three year arent long time and if you had told youre female friend that you had feeling of this guy then maybe she will get upset and get even hurt that her best friend telling her this . i dont think it right to tell her in case if she does get mad or even pits that you like him. i think you shouldnt rushing to go head and go out with him . cause i have best friends that i know about 20 years and their are most guys and i did had crushed on one of my best friend but i didnt even want to go out with him cause i was scared i will lose a best friend if our relationship didnt worked out. so any ways maybe you can jst write him a note to him and tell him that some body like you had a big crush on him , how you feeling about him or you can umm just ask him if he like to go to watch a movie only both of you instead not telling youre female friend about it . cause if he did that she will get mad or even feel uncomftable . .but if she doesnt care then you can go with him. well if you want to find out if he does or dont like you then . just ask him how do he feel about you not his ex -girlfriend. Dont be shy to speak up and tell him ?

well if you dont want to break up youre friendship with him then its youre choose what you really want do , and if you dont want to then tell him that what happen if somebody else thats youre also best friend had went out with you would you go out with this other person and still stay friends with her . but dont tell him who she is and what her name is just make up a silly name then wait til what he going say to you .

Answer 9

HE probably likes you but if you go out with him you will never talk to your best friend again.

Answer 10

it's not up to your friend who you should like. i think you should go for it. he sounds like a nice guy. and if you have a nice relationship with him, then it shouldn't be any problem to start dating. that's my advice to you! GOOD NIGHT!