why do people have to be so cruel. okay so heres my stupid problem. and i cant believe i am using this to ask.
okay there is this guy. and i really like him okay. then my best friend.. asks him to go out with me. and then next day shes said "OKAY so i was asking out "HIM" and he'd rather go out with me. so i said yes, i mean what else am i supposed to do."
WHAT A *********!!!!!
I CANT BELIEVE HER.
I HAVE LIKED HIM FOR ALMOST THREE MONTHS.
GOD.
girls are f.u.c.k.i.n.g vicisous.
I HATE IT!!
2007-03-24 17:49:26 · 16 answers · asked by rocker_chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, listen to this because this is important. You have to have the courage to ask for and go for the things you want in life. Lives that are great adventures are filled with heart break and failure as well as love, joy, and happiness. If you play it safe, you will get safe, and watch life from the sidelines like you are now...
2007-03-24 17:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could always confront her about it, don't fight though. tell her how you felt when it happened but the thing is this just opens up new opportunities with better guys for you. yes, it was a dirty thing, it's sad how guys can get in the way of friendships, believe me, i've experienced it. But see this as a way to better yourself for a new guy. Maybe next time don't tell your friend about who you like. Certain girls are all about competition sometimes too. I'm sorry this happened, totally not fun. But good luck with the new one. Try to be happy for them, put on a good face, look gorgeous, and seek out that hot new guy that's waiting for you around the corner!!! Good Luck!!
2007-03-24 17:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose your friends carefully.....they are ususally the ones that know your secrets and where the dead bodies are buried......and also how to talk to the guys you like. I wouldn't worry about it....a new guy will grab your interest before the month is up.....and hopefully the next girl will be a true friend.
2007-03-24 18:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yeah that basically sums up the definition of girls its good to have them around when you need girl time but thats why i stick with having so many guy friends because they actually treat me pretty well and i get to play football =] but um tell her your really pissed of with her because she did that and she could have said no and then tell him he's an a.sshole for doing that to you because you have liked him for a while and that he could have at least given you a chance.
oh and tell her you'll be there when he screws her over because it will happen even though you are mad at her you still have to be somewhat of a friend to her
2007-03-24 17:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He the two likes you and that's the only way he's conscious the thank you to teach it or to easily get your interest. Did you ever see "howdy Arnold" it grew to become right into a comic book strip on nickelodeon. a woman grew to become into continuously choosing on him for no reason yet in certainty she grew to become into in love with him. pass discern!
2016-11-23 13:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep... thats why i never had best friends. i was always backstabbed by them untill i started making best friends with guys..... now my bf is my best friend. i just have close girlfriends but they have a limit. i dont trust lots of ppl. ive been hurt too many times b4.
2007-03-24 17:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be disappointed many times in your life. don't hate your friend. he may turn out to be a jerk and she will be the one who gets hurt and not you. thhings happen the way they do for a reason.
2007-03-24 17:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by trendsetter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Dont constantly talk about guys you like; your friends will notice his qualities and start liking him too.
2) Get new friends
2007-03-24 17:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude that is messed up. so scandalous! i hope your not still her friend, because she really doesn't care about your feelings obviously, shes dippin in your kool-aid, and shes probably jealous of you and didn't even ask him out for you, but for her. you can't trust her!
2007-03-24 17:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea they are. last year a guy liked me & i liked him & we knew it and she tried to make me jelous by kissing him on the cheek and hugging him right infromt of me and crap like that i didn't know that she was trying to make me jelouse till like a month after cause i didn't care
2007-03-24 17:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋