Which news is worse,a man that has cheated or he tells the woman he has had a vasectomy and does not want kids?
2007-03-24 17:32:30 · 9 answers · asked by isbros 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have not done either one of these acts,however, I am considering on having a vasectomy.
2007-03-24 17:44:48 · update #1
Most of the women, I date have had their tubes tied anyway, so the vasectomy issue is nothing to them.
I had my vasectomy at 21, and I am over 40 now.
Why would a woman be bothered about hearing that their male partner does not want kids? Honestly, he does not want her to his “Baby making slave”. There is nothing more chauvinistic than getting a woman pregnant. She should be happy. I know my girlfriend is.
2007-03-25 03:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Marvin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if he has been leading the women a long that he did want kids. If my man told me that he had had a vasectomy, I would just organise a needle to get some out of his balls, and he would end up with kids, and missed the best part of making them.
Cheating has it's own issues.
Please tell us you haven't done both of these to a poor girl
2007-03-24 17:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the Woman, if shes a swinger ,she wont care about cheating. If she doesn't want kids she wont care about a vasectomy.
2007-03-24 17:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it depends.
If a man is with a woman for two weeks and says he's cheated, she can dump him immediately, no problem - it's not like she'd have tones of emotions invested in that relationship.
But if he's lied for years and then, when she's ready to try to have kids, he admits that he can't, that's beyond cruel and heartless.
2007-03-24 17:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Exhaustus Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two have no similarities?? Any man who cheats, it is bad. But if he says he has had a vasectomy and doesn't want kids, he is just being honest. Assuming he really did have one. I'll take honesty over cheating anyday, duh!
2007-03-24 17:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating definitely,unless the woman is pregnant with his child and he is telling her this to ask her to get an abortion. In that case, both are equally bad.
2007-03-24 17:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dependz on the women but i would say cheating cause u could always adopt and escape the pain of childbirth
2007-03-24 17:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by babyjane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman that has a big mouth is a turn off
2007-03-24 17:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a no brainer, it would be that he was honest with me.
i can handle that but a cheater i cant.
2007-03-24 17:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋