im 14 ...my boyfirend and i have been going out for about a month, this is the second time i have gonna out wit him.i havent seen him in almost a year. I talk to him all the time on the phone. we have liked each other since the summer. He was the sweetest guy ever !!.now that wen are going out hes not as sweet .. i think somthing is wrong ..he was told me not to worry about it.
2007-03-24 17:31:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like you just over analyzing everything. You need to understand this. Guys this age are either A> A virgin and scared they will never ever get laid and will say or do anything hoping you might let them "IN" . OR B>Not a virgin and are willing to say or do anything because they a scared that they will never find another girl who will let them "IN". A boyfriend is just a guy who thinks you are going to give it up and it starts and stops with that in High School. Thats the way it is straight.
2007-03-24 17:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk about it first. Tell him how you're feeling and if he still isn't getting it, I'd say its time to break it off. You're very young and you don't need to waste your time with a thing like this, there are many more important things to focus your energy on.
I'm not saying this because I don't think people your age shouldn't be in serious relationships either. I started dating my husband when I was 14 and now here I am at 22 and we're still together (married for 3 years). Good luck and remember, you KNOW the right thing to do.
2007-03-25 00:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by chicka_buggie84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, it seems like he doesn't appreciate you. He's probably immature and isn't as involved in the relationship as you are. Sadly some guys are at their best during the beginning and start to deteriorate over time and that's when you see their low side.
2007-03-26 00:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by jafeam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should dump him. Fourteen is too young to be in a relationship and especially if it's with somebody you don't plan on marrying. Oldfashion? Yes. But why bother going out with somebody if it isn't serious? "It's fun". Until they break your heart, right? Lol. Kids...
2007-03-25 00:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by C J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel something is wrong your more then likely right...tell him you want to start dating other people and that he can do the same..if he gets upset then try to talk to him and tell him how you feel...if he dint care and acts like that is a good idea chances are he is already seeing someone else...dump him and move on your young and will date many people before you settle down...
good luck to you honey...
2007-03-25 15:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by LORI R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously he's not telling you something. but don't jump to conclusions though. It may be a personal problem, he could be in a bad mood, or it could be worse. You know more about the relationship than we do, so you'll have to figure it out from there.
2007-03-25 00:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dudeson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guadalu he is right don't worry about it, first you are yung please don't worry about boys right now boys will always be there lots of them for you to choose from don't worry about one, at this age he's going to some changes finding out about him self that will define him later in life! so just be his friend and listen when he talks, give advise only when he asks for one. Don't ever blame your self for what other peoples problems are..........
2007-03-25 00:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by aguinaldorx8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
and do not bother about going out on dates your to young. Just have friends and keep it that way until you are at lest 16
2007-03-25 00:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by heariam660 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are awfully young to be worrying about these matters. I say dump him and find something more age-appropriate to do with your time.
2007-03-25 00:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Arrica C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not nice to you or you are having doubts...dump him. you are too young to be stressed out over this and the relationship hasn't been going on long...you coulkd remain friends.
2007-03-25 00:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋