okay so this dude zeb and i went out 4 times and the fourth time he kept saying oh your so amazing and bright and i love you. then 2 weeks later he breaks up with me cause this chick said i was with him for his money whichc is complete and ttl lie he was the first guy i loved and we hardly ever talk anymore but i still have feelings for him and i think he may still have them for me but im scared to tell him my feelings without looking completly stupid and embarresed plz help me
2007-03-24 17:29:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may still have feelings for this guy but if he said all those things to you in the beginning then breaks up with you because of a rumor you don't want to be with him anyway. If he really had feelings for you he would've confronted you instead of believeing what someone else said. If you want to find out the truth but are too afraid to approach him wait see if he is checking out someone else. Expressing your feelings isn't easy so there is honestly no way to tell him your feelings without feeling embarassed but you should talk to clear the air if nothing else. If you find that he has moved on you move on too you'll find another love.
2007-03-24 17:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by parchessey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok. First of all, there is nothing embarrassing about expressing feelings to someone to love. It's a simple, common part of life and no matter how much you bottle it up, it will come out sooner or later. For sooner, would be best. For later, wouldn't suggest it because you just know your gonna regret never telling him before instead of now. and maybe he isn't right for you anyway if he is way to gullible to believe some wh0re's lies. because that only means that he doesn't trust or even love you. so, make that choice.
2007-03-25 00:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him straight. Tell him the truth, but don't expect to get him back into your love life by doing so. If he was that concerned about any miscommunication, he would have clarified the matter before running off with Ms. Liar. Set him straight for your own peace of mind, and find someone new who will treat you better.
2007-03-25 00:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have boy problems. You have people problems. You need to be more self-confident and not worry about what other people think about you. Tell him how you feel and that you didn't go out with him for his money!
2007-03-25 00:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, what have you got to loose, if he's not taking to you now and he still wont change his mind after you confess you true feelings then what exactly will change, but if you don't tell him then you'll never know if he feels the same way or if you two were ment to be together.
2007-03-25 00:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by rickys_lil_mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell what really happened or he just doesn't want to listen to you because h thinks your a cheater so you really want to find a guy that is the right guy for you who actually cares about how you feel and is forgiving
2007-03-25 00:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Wenlao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put it on the line and tell him how you feel , if he responds positive good ,if negative then to hell with him he is not worth your time.
2007-03-25 00:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by mekimartin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care that much about him, you won't care about looking completely stupid and embarrased. What's more important to you???
2007-03-25 00:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like and agree with effy z's answer...
that is the best....
lol
2007-03-25 00:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Boomer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him and get it over with
2007-03-25 00:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋