k. i am 16, and go to high school. i like this girl at my school and she also goes to my church but last i heard that she is going out with someone already. should i tell her i like her and see what happens or should i just wait for them to break up and then tell her????
2007-03-24 17:26:47 · 18 answers · asked by mexico 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should tell her how u feel or u will regret it someday they might get married in the future so step up while u can
2007-03-24 17:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by King_Sean93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know this girl really well? Telling her that you like her is a good start. But did you know you are kind of interfering with her relationship with her boyfriend as well. If you dont know her well why not get to know her more become a friend of hers. Some people that know was in your situation and it sort of become a 3 love triangle. For an example you like the girl and the girl's boyfriend likes her. Are you willing to put her in the situation where a least, one of you's get rejected and become depressed. My advice is always see the big picture before you make a move...Get to know her more...Unless you do know her already.. Waiting for them to break up, Are you waiting for this girl? What happens if your feelings for this girl change in between the waiting?
2007-03-25 01:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jess.MV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since i am a 16 yr old girl i think i can assist you lol, do NOT tell her because she's already in a relationship, what you do is wait for them to break up, but don't be trying to talk to her right after they break up, be a good friend first try some flirting and see what happens
2007-03-25 00:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by chanteezy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to her and hint around to see if she likes her current beau. Listen to her tone and watch her facial expressions while she talks about him to see how she feels about him. This way if she's a smart broad she'll realize you like her bc your asking her those types of questions. Then if your cute OR charming AND she doesn't FULLY like her current boyfriend then she MIGHT consider you as potential. Unless your Leonardo DiCaprio she's gonna wait until she breaks up with her current beau anyway until she'll go out with you Unless she's a hoe. Then you REALLY don't want to go out with her Unless your one too but you don't sound like it. In the meantime, since you have your own life to live I would find another dame to ask out. Unless you feel that you REALLY know her well, and it's dire you love her forever because you feel you cannot live without her: then the next time you see her yell ILOVE YOU. Otherwise, find a chick whose available.... Who knows you might find a girl whose a million times better anyway. Pray!!!
2007-03-25 00:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by AfroCatrachaSiempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, you can wait for 30 years for a break up.
2007-03-25 00:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become her close friend until they break up and then you will be her shoulder to cry on but you have to be carefull or else she'll say she thinks of u as a brother and then you'll never get into her pants.
P.S this is my sisters acount I am actually a guy because no girl would ever give u such sweet advice LOL
2007-03-25 00:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by babyjane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, you don't want to be accused of trying to break them up because then she'll never like you. when she breaks up with her bf just be there for her to cheer her up. wait until she seems completely over her ex (ask a girl friend of hers to be sure) then tell her you like her. good luck
2007-03-25 00:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to break up with the guy she is going out with.Once a guy told me thet he liked me, I liked him too but it made me not like him because he knew I was going out with someone,and he still told me he liked me.Just wait, trust me.
2007-03-25 00:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy she's currently dating doesn't go to your church, maybe she's dating him because she hasn't found anyone in your church yet to date.
I say go for it. If she turns you down, keep in contact. Girls generally like to date guys of the same faith.
2007-03-25 00:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just being a really good friend for now. Get to know her and really decide if you like her, in the meantime, she'll be getting to know you. She'll realize in time who is best for her. Good luck love.
2007-03-25 00:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋