how can you tell you are truly inlove with someone.. like i mean spend the rest of your life, get married have kids kind of love.. or is it just a knowing feeling?
2007-03-24 17:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is that person your very best friend? If that person never changed 1 thing about them could you still love them? Can you love them even when they are not lovable? Do you share the same values, beliefs and dreams? What is it that you love about them? These are all questions that you should ask yourself.
2007-03-24 17:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Starrlyte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone you can really count on.someone you can trust.when you go out 1 door and no one is coming in the other door.when both people fall in love,have a family,the man works and supports the family,and both of you grow old togeather and still love each other and both of you can sit on the porch,hold hands and talk about the old days and enjoy your grandchildren.thats what real love is all about,when the 1 you pick,is the 1 that you will be with until death,do you part.just like the vows you take,when you both marry.
2007-03-25 00:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being "in love" is a feeling; a wonderful emotion. But REAL love is a choice and an action verb...you choose to love and take care of that person and STAY COMMITTED TO THEM under the worse of circumstances. Feelings can deceive you, emotions can change. Ask yourself if you are willing to love/serve/stay committed/ride out the storms no matter what the situations.
2007-03-25 00:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by angelajunkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of hard to tell, but it would be even easier if you are both at a mature age where you make better choices. Usually, if you are really young, its not real love. There are exceptions though.
2007-03-25 00:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow instincts. Always instincts. If you find someone that loves and cares for you as much as you do him/her, those aren't the only ones to look for. If he has a sense of responsibility with children, if you will love his personality, perfect. you can definately call it a "knowing" feeling.
2007-03-25 00:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's more of a knowing feeling than anything else. but you should also factor in things like both views about how to raise your children, how to properly disapline children, and how to properly reward children. all or factors that can end even the most perfect relationship.
2007-03-25 00:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by rickys_lil_mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling you cant describe with someone you know you cant live without...its when you miss him the second he leaves ..and you smile just by thinking of him...when everything that used to go wrong suddenly goes right...when everything you do you want him to be there with you..n everything jus feels RIGHT
2007-03-25 00:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your in love to ask this question... if hes the one you will know when he asks you to marry him and you dont see any reason to say no.
2007-03-25 00:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like you said... if you have to ask then you dont know.
its all about the way you feel, you just know
2007-03-25 00:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by cali_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you eat the same amount of food you usually eat ........... when this person is around? If you answered no ........... thats the one.
2007-03-25 00:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋