WHAT SHOULD I DO ; THE OLDEST IS WORKING AND IS STANDING BY HER BOYFRIEND,SOLID AS A ROCK, MEAN BUT SOLID. THE YOUNGEST HAS A BABY AND HER BOYFREIND WON'T WORK IN A PIE FACTORY,SHE'S WORKING AND TAKING CARE OF HER BABY,BUT IT'S STARTING TO GET TO HER,LOSING WEIGHT EVEN AS YOU LOOK AT HER.WHAT DO I DO?
2007-03-24 17:19:51 · 9 answers · asked by jackie love being white 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No matter what you say or do, youll be told youre interferring.
Just support hun. I think thats all you can do.
2007-03-24 17:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by who_me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only have a input when they hit rock bottom and ask you for help. If you try to tell them how they are being used they will only be isolated from you more by saying it. I don't know any real man that would sit by and not work and let someone take care of him.
2007-03-25 00:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I’m the wrong one to answer this. But my suggestion is go get drunk come home and throw all their stuff out on the lawn. Just not the baby keep the baby.
2007-03-25 00:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now is the time to be a friend , and NOT a mom. As hard as it may be , you will only push them away if you start harping about things they don't want to see (or admit).
2007-03-25 01:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by ahh_maine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be livid! Are either living with you? And why didn't your younger one know of the sloppy habits of her boyfriend who should be her husband! Tough love time is overdue!
2007-03-25 07:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they are adults. support their decisions without judgement or criticism. let them lead their own lives and make their own mistakes. focus on yourself.
2007-03-25 00:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both adults...They have to work out their own problems...all you can do is to be there if they need help.
2007-03-25 06:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
help her out by watching her baby so she can get a break
2007-03-25 00:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
offer as much emotional support as you can maybe offer to babysit to give her a break.
2007-03-25 00:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by CHRISTINE S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋