my boyfriend who i love very much is moving four states away from me in 1 week! We are going to stay together, and after he graduates in a year, he is going to move back to where i live. im so depressed though, and i need to know how to deal with this. please dont tell me to move on, or to find a different guy, because i dont want to. He loves me very much, and im going to wait for him ,but i need help on how to cope with being so sad........
2007-03-24 17:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by Maddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to depressing country classics....
Seriously, good luck to you!
2007-04-01 00:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by krafty1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aww im sorry to hear that and it happen like with me i left my boo and from experiences girl it is a war to fight i mean he's gonna meet new peeps and everything and u know every one love tha new kid on tha block any who i thins as of now u should make him or get him something cool that will make him think about u and only you until u guys meet up again and make sure a phone and stamps are alwasy in handle
but to pit urself up now thats gonna b hard because no matter what u do its gonna always b on ur mind but try to spend tha time u can 2gether cuz believe it or not this week is gonna go bye fast
and as far as leaving ur boo dont do that but keep guy friends around because u never know if he a have a change of hearts and yeal he might love u now but u guys are young and he will meet and c new and interesting females out there
2007-04-01 16:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good test for yourself and for your relationship. My hunny and I have spent many spells apart and have always ended them feeling closer than before. Also, we end up with a new adventure to tell each other about. Often when I missing my hunny when he was working and I was in school - I'd go about my business and have a great time. Instead of feeling guilty about not sharing a fun time with him I'd think about what his perception would be when I told him about it. Makes it fun.
Plus lots of letter and emails...before you know it you'll be back in baby's arms and it will feel sweeter than ever.
Oh yeah...most important - TRUST your man. If you don't you'll drive yourself crazy and lose a lot of respect from him too. If he feels like your insecure in your time away, it could destroy you...
Don't be depressed. It's not depressing. Really! Have fun!
2007-04-01 13:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my husband is in Iraq and the best thing to do is to keep busy! If you don't have a job, get one even if it is just part time. Get involved in groups at school or church. Have a girl night once a week just to get out and have fun. It helps me not to devote 24/7 to my man being gone so just take it easy.
2007-03-29 16:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by ~never again~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for him call him and be there when he needs you It will be hard not seeing him but just remember hes coming back after he graduates and try to communicate as frequently as possible
2007-04-01 13:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by totheleft_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprisingly you dont know how fast a year really is. he'll be back with you before you know it
2007-04-01 15:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by DJ Vinny The Ginny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋