ladies first experience being with a woman?

Question

I'm a woman who is 33 years old and have never been with a woman. I had my first experience about a year ago out of curiosity and I thought that would be it but it has lasted for one year now. I know what the Bible says about it and how Christians view it but I would like to hear and know how does women who are gay and or lesbians view it and how they did with it on a daily basis and not feel convicted. I mean I love this woman with all of my heart and if I could have all the qualities that she poses in a man it would be perfect. I know I can't change her sex I really need to know how and why this happening to me and what should I do. One last thing, if you were line up several naked women in front of me it wouldn't phase me but if you were to line up serveral naked men in front of me now that would really turn me on (them being attractive of course).HELP

Answer 1

HEY! not all christian's think it's bad, infact, there are plenty of gay christians out there. my answer to you, you love her, and that's all that matters. in god's eyes, i think god would see that you love her and care about her and i think, to god, that's all that matters. i think god is blind as far as love goes, i think as far as love goes, god doesnt care about looks or gender, god cares about how you treat other people and wether or not you love that person. gender doesnt matter in my opinion. im in luv w/a girl and after a while the religious anti gay stuff i saw on the news and outside the capital started to piss me off, but after awhile i just realized that all that really matters is her, the girl i luv, and that i care about her, and no matter how many people say i'm a sinner and that it's just lust, it will not change the cold hard fact that i love and care about her more than anything in the world. love, that's what matters. dont listen to the hate, there will always be hate, and love will always conquer. good luck and i hope this helped.

Answer 2

I am actually straight and a Christian, but i just thought i'd say my opinion on this...we really dont know what God is thinking. We know that the bible says that two guys having sex out of LUST is a sin, but that's it. So, in God's eyes, is being gay "wrong"? We honestly do not know, and even if it was, it doesnt mean ur automatically going to hell. God is loving. Just stay close to him.....idk i hope this helps is some way shape or form

Answer 3

You fell in love with the heart and soul of this person. You are very fortunate to have found such a special love. It doesn't matter that she is female. The soul has no gender. Be thankful or you may lose her.

Answer 4

Why not just walk away from it and thank God for conviction? He destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah and He hasn't changed how He feels about the subject. He has promised to be there with open arms and forgive you.