i really love when me and my boyfriend kiss and i need to get some tips on how to get better at it cause im gonna see him tomorrow and he said that we can kiss if i want to and i said yes so i need to get a little better at it step by step tips i guess you could say would be great thanx.
2007-03-24 17:12:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love how my girlfriend kisses me, here's her tips:
1. Chat the boy up. Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, perhaps by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows, or just by talking nicely to him.
2. Flirt. Smile a lot, touch your hair, do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often.
3. Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys love holding hands. Hugging is encouraged!
4. Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.
5. Start slow. If he's too shy to make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.
6. Afterwards, say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, ditto. If he is angry, then abort the situation- no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.
7. Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again.
2007-03-24 17:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by cool&laid-back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess kissing can be a pretty big hurdle, but unfortunately there is no real way to give exact tips. You just have to practice! :) Anyway, I guess the best advice I could give would be to go slowly, and stop every so often and look into each others eyes. That not only is incredibly romantic (especially if you've found someone you really really like) but it also creates more anticipation. If you want to spice it up a little and forgo the cute method, tongue would be good, although that can take a little bit of courage to start that, especially if you haven't been together long.
2007-03-25 00:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by sjfivhm07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you like 12? He said you could kiss and you said yes. No one plans kissing, it happens. If it is right, you will be fine. It isn't something you have to study for, you kiss however you kiss and visa versa. It should be spontaneous and romantic or it shouldn't be!
2007-03-25 00:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha how cute, u dont need to make plans to kiss, u shoudl just do it whenever u feel like it. at least thats how i do it, i kiss him even when hes in the middle of a sentence but i know he hates it lol, but yah we just kiss whenever we dont ask each other lol..... but if u wanna do it more romanticly try open mouth kisses, no tongue, run ur fingers through his hair, even if he keeps it relly short like my bf....just hold him tight and kiss him then in between the open mouth kisses try ur tongue but just a little...its like teasing him....
2007-03-25 00:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly
2007-03-25 00:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously young... you are either good at kissing or not that is life...there are no step by step instructions and besides spitting in someone's mouth is disgusting so if there is a better way to spit in someone's mouth well I hope you learn!! LOL
2007-03-25 00:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by reggiethecokegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissin for men is not just a lip lock, its more of proximity and freedom for hands. Jus melt into his arms,take cue from his lip movements and give free movement to his arms, dont guide them or stop them, and as far as your are concerned keep them in his hairs and gently push his head on your face.
2007-03-25 00:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy_male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and pucker up let your own style take over. Be careful of those passionate kisses and don't let them get you into trouble!
2007-03-25 00:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for French:
kiss, : *
insert toungue :P
really gross 4 me :$
but then again, :o
everyone else does it! :* :* :* :* :* :* :* :*
good luck!
2007-03-25 00:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm.
hold his hands or put your arms around him & have him put his arms around your waist.
and tadaah!
2007-03-25 00:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋