There a guy that told me he likes me and I told him I like him too we were suppose to hang out the other day but he never showed up. I called his phone and he was with some of his friends. idk should I even bother trying?
2007-03-24 17:09:35 · 19 answers · asked by generalkim2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you had made arrangements to hang out and you got dissed to hang out with the guys,you already know where you stand.
2007-03-24 17:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He may have been telling you because he is attracted to you but has no intention of following through on it. He could have also told you then gotten scared that you were going to take him seriously and failed to show up to let you know he is not serious about you. Lastly, some guys like to have girls chase after them so they can brag or to make other girls jealous and will set you up. The only way to tell if he really likes you is to play it cool and let him ask you out on a real date-not to hang out with the crowd. If he does, he really likes you. If not, be friendly but keep it at that.
2007-03-25 00:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a first date, that is very rude and inconsiderate. YOu might want to rethink it, he might be like that all the time, you will come after all his friends and everything else. I wouldn't call him or worry about it. If he calls, tell him you can't go, make up some excuse, see how he reacts. I don't think he is very serious or he would of showed up. What a pig.
2007-03-25 00:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is like a mind game people play with eash other
some one that likes the other may see how fare the other will go to see if they will fallow. just to see if they like than the same.
but Agana the body languish play an important part in this
wus it a Friend full, or a not detract like this person said it like
they wish to get some (fake not caring full, but Sly)
u r the judge of this....
and agein timeing is every thing....
but plez do not go to fare with this mind game
cuz thair are more pple out thare for u trust me....
2007-03-25 00:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say NO. IF he told you that he would be there and he didnt show up, i mean that means he doesnt like you. When you like someone and you tell them that you will be there to hang out, if you truly like them you'll be there. Else no he doesnt. Or he could have been doing some sort of bet with his friends to leave you there. Just saying.
2007-03-25 00:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wanted you to come and hang out with him and his other friends. There are many types of "likes", you just have to make sure you're both talking about the same one.
2007-03-25 00:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't bother and get used to it...men are flakes and their friends always come first even when they are 45 trust me!! I am old! they are not reliable and only good for a few things... LOL
2007-03-25 00:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by reggiethecokegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he stood you up like that don't even bother trying again! You deserve someone who would actually like to spend time with you. Good luck!!
2007-03-25 00:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by ley86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I wouldn't if you haven't already.
It might be that he got busy, guys are not good at communicating. sorry fellas, but it's true. Women are more considerate. If he's interested in you he'll need to step up his game for standing you up. Don't give in easily!
2007-03-25 00:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course dont give up but to see if he reallie likes you make him jelous wit another guy then dump the guy and whoever comes back is who ur supposed to b wit
**also love sucks but never give up**
2007-03-25 00:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by crazykid9530 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋