This girl I've been dating for 3 months has changed. She was happy for a while then all of the sudden she's not happy around me anymore. I've asked her if anything was wrong, I tried to get an answer out of her and she said "nothing was wrong". She won't answer her phone, reply to email, or anything. She said she's left the phone in the car, but most girls go no where w/out their phone.
Her friends have told me that they've seen her with a different guy at the movie theater and just recently a bonfire party but, they weren't doing anything. I've asked her about it and she said it's one of her friends from a different school. I'd hate to think she's cheating on me, but if she is then that would really break me down.
Is she cheating on me or am I being paranoid?
2007-03-24 17:09:30 · 25 answers · asked by Dudeson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie...it sounds like she is possibly cheating. :[ But, you know the relationship better than we do. Do you truly care for her ? Do you want to still make it work ? If so, tell her. Tell her how deeply you care about her and ask for the straight truth. You don't want to waste any more of your time if she is doing this to you, but you probably don't want to lose what you still have left. Good luck. I hope everything works out in the end. :]
2007-03-24 17:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Doll. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well shes is acting strange and hanging out with other guys..of course shes cheating on you man. Even her friends told you she was with another guy. Leave her before she hurts you any worse. If you catch her in the act then you are gonna be hurt 10 times worse and she is making you insnae now.
Give up. Let her go...and move on with your life. The more time you waste ..the more time you are wasting with her , the more time you could be looking for someone better for you.
2007-03-24 17:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is cheating. I mean NOT answering the phone and sayin she left it in the car NO.. NO girl leaves her phone.. she saw it was you and didnt wanna talk cuz she was withhim. I mean put 2 and 2 together... it sounds like she is cheating. Im sorry to sound so harsh but I honestly think she is.
She just isnt interested anymore but don't know a nice way to tell you though there is no nice way she obviously doesn't wannahurt ur feelings. just confront her. Let her know you know something is up and just telll her you don't belive here. say I wanna know up front, if you don't wanna be with me tell me now so it don't lead to a ever worse heartbreak. thelonger you stay with her like this, the worse it will be
2007-03-24 17:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being paranoid. If she hasn't cheated yet, it's probably on her list of things to do. Women are moody, but when she has a personality change it's for a real reason.
I think she is looking for a way to leave you. Sorry.
2007-03-24 17:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by kitty-mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this but it sounds like she doesn't want to be with you right now. She might not be cheating on you but if she's not answering your calls or e-mails then she is trying to tell you that she doesn't want to have anything to do with you right now. She might change her behavior soon. Girls go through phases and get moody and don't feel like seeing their "boyfriend". But they may be too coward to tell them the truth.
2007-03-24 17:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by chiapet159 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er... well. she could be cheating. or that is a really close friend of hers... you decide. hopefully she is not cheating. and no you are not paranoid. any normal boyfriend would worry when a girlfriend is like that. maybe it is all a misunderstanding. trying talking to her in person and hopefully things work out. but if they dont, dont be sad. because its her loss! dont let her get you down. :)
2007-03-24 17:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Minor Bunny Engine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if she's not answering your phone calls or emails shes not into you any more. And its a good possibility that she's cheating on you.
2007-03-24 17:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tater Tot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to you bro, but she is most likely attracted to this guy more than you. Pretty soon she will probably break up with you. Whether she is cheating on you or not, she has probably fallen for this guy. Sorry.
2007-03-24 17:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might not be cheating (as in sex) but she's probably interested in the other guy and wants to free herself for him.
2007-03-24 17:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....change in behavior, out of communication, weird emotional space, seen with another man.
You do the math.
2007-03-24 17:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by laffryot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋