He seems to be too tired after a hard day at work to take a shower... The thing is he'll go to bed like that, will ask for sex and then go back to work without taking a shower the next day as well. What infuriates me is that he gets offended if I refuse any form of intercourse with him. I mean asking him to wash his hands turns into a problem. He is like that at least 3 days out of 7 w/intervals of course. I mean I take 2 showers a day and always take care of my appearance , so what gives?
2007-03-24 17:01:48 · 19 answers · asked by I, in wonderland 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi gurl!by reading your msg.i feel ghostbummms!
you even hve the guts to make love in that condition?maybe if you both dont shower thats ok but gurl dats sucks!
you dont know that by that you can get infections or viruses!and woman body more prone to that!try to get shower together each time he came home prepare a nice warn and relaxing shower for two ok or if you have tub go with bubble bath together and flirt so he eventually looking for that each time he came home! ok good luck! if he disagree to that leave him make him pay and tink of his mess dont take risk fr your health.
2007-03-24 17:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by vash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was with my boyfriend (husband presently) He would do the same thing. I just outright told him what was up and asked him to please just rinse off in the shower at least before coming to bed. I bought him some great new body wash that he loved and from then on he has always washed up. Sometimes if he wants a little extra surprise, I strip down and jump in the shower when he is least expecting me, usually after a few minutes to give him time to wash up.
2007-03-24 17:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I'm in the same boat. You love him and he probably wasn't always like that. I usually say, "why don't you jump in the shower while I get ready for bed, or while I'm doing whatever. Or why don't you get into the shower and I'll be in there in a sec." and give him a chance to wash before you jump in! It might work. After doing that for a while I think he got the hint. Good luck!
2007-03-24 17:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by qtpy4u00 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sleep on the couch, wear a clothespin on your nose to bed, spray the bed with the strongest perfume that YOU can stand, light incense, get his clothes ready for him by the shower and leave a sexy love note that IF he takes one, well...he will get some for once without you getting sick.
2007-03-24 17:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe he just doesn't like to shower..but you can get sick by not staying clean..does he know that...when your not clean you have so much bacteria build up on your hands and who knows what else..i mean if he can't take a shower then it might just be time to refuse sex and tell him "if you don't have to shower then i don't have to have sex with you..." let him know that its just disgusting and very lazy of him..which it is....
sorry if this sounds rude but thats just gross...and you shouldn't have to put up with it...
2007-03-24 17:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by grlw1981 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be honest tell him he stinks. So what if he is tired from work, love stinks with a stinky man. Tell him I would rather make love with a skunk, I think he will shower after that comment.
2007-03-24 17:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by drop of dew 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow! You want a boyfriend like that?
Sheesh.
Perhaps you could just start by telling him he needs to shower. Truth is best. How dare he expect something from you if you can't expect him to have good grooming habits.
ICK
2007-03-24 17:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by justjacob222 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like pig pen from snoopy...the man needs to take a shower...maybe if u leave a hot bath for him or take one together but then u might run b/c the water might turn brown...yeah...or tell him u wanna wash his while u have a clothes pin on your nose...good luck and zest fully clean...some men are freakn pigs!!!
2007-03-24 17:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that's gross tell him to take a shower or go sleep in the dumpster.then he can have sex with the homeless guy that smells like him
2007-03-24 17:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Quit being obsessive about showers. Give the poor man a break. Don't knit-pick and stop showering so much!!!!!!!
2007-03-24 17:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sara D 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋