Guys find me really attractive..girls are often jealous of me. Many people make good comments about the way i dress and the way i look...There's only one problem..I ll be 18 years old in 2 months and I never had a BF ...I feel terrible...and i often cry about it..Do you think something is wrong with me? Am I normal or what? and yes i m attracted to guys..
2007-03-24 17:00:52 · 28 answers · asked by lolo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait, the right guy will come along and it will be worth the wait
2007-03-24 17:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by The Real McCoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is all true, you really are something...
First off, there is no problem with not having a boyfriend at your age. Yes, most ( a huge majority ) have had some form of relationship with someone of the opposite sex, but you on the other hand (like myself) has been given the chance to sit back an observe closely every mistake they have made. This is your edge.
There is NOTHING wrong with you at all, and you should NOT feel sad, or terrible about any of this. If you're the type of person who I think you are (from what I have observed over my 21 years), you have nothing to worry about. Someone will make you so happy, that the wait was well worth it.
(edit) Wow, I can't believe the words of these "Top Contributors" are making... Do NOT change the way you look for any person, or group of people. Love who you are, and what you portray. You are perfect the way you are.
2007-03-25 00:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find a boyfriend soon enough. You are definitely normal. Heck you should be happy that you didn't have to deal with all the highschool drama that boyfriends come with. Having said that though, maybe you should take a look at yourself. Your not pushing people away are you? Is it your looks that make the girls jealous or your attitude? If it's your behavior, well that's a turnoff for guys too, who would want somebody that is more into themselves then their partner?
2007-03-25 00:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by bosco6159 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with u. I am 18 almost 19 and never have had a boyfriend. The right person for us are out there somewhere ... we just got to wait till we find them. Just dont EVER settle for someone just becasue u want a boyfriend ... also be yourself and be confident with who u are ... those two things are the most attractive things in a person.
2007-03-25 00:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by confuzzeled88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are the girls jealous? Do you have any real close friends that you can ask their opinion? Are you somehow flirting with these girls boyfriends? If you don't have a close friend, then ask a teacher that you admire at school. Trust me, not having a boyfriend is not the end of the world. My suggestion is to be involved in alot of school activities and maybe volunteer work in your area. Just be there for others and it will work out for you.
2007-03-25 00:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of times when a girl is that attractive, some guys think she is unapproachable and that she would never go out with guys like them... there is nothing wrong with you. make sure you're nice to all the guys, even the "losers". if you're very shy, maybe some guys just think you arn't interested, and its as simple as that. also, maybe you should be the one to ask out the guy. alot of guys enjoy getting a break from the pressure of always asking the girl. just make sure you are friendly, flash a smile every now and then, and be yourself : ]
2007-03-25 00:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Alexis R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So girls are often jealous of u? people makes good comments about u and guys find u attractive? These are all physical attributes. Ever thought about your INNER side?
2007-03-25 00:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by cool&laid-back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I'm almost your age and I'm in the same boat (except probably not as pretty, lol.) If I were in your shoes (and I kinda am) I just try to accept that everything happens for different people at different times and *someday* it will be my turn for all that happiness and bf/gf true love stuff other girls have. I'd rather wait for the guy that's right for me than date around anyways.
2007-03-25 00:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by GeekGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there's nothing wrong with you!!! Take things slow REMEMBER The fireworks have to work on both sides you will know when you meet him. Just don't jump into the sack right away make them wait if they wait long enough you know he is right, REMEMBER NO Pressure. Keep confidence high at all times guy's sense it if you don't have it , you can be a model with no confidence=No boyfriend GOOD LUCK
2007-03-25 00:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by cattivo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so hard on yourself. Sometimes guys are intimated by beautiful women, because they think there is no way they are available, and are afraid to ask. Girls are mean like that and of course they would be jealous, that is just how they are.
The GUTSY guy will come along... nothing wrong with you,
stay beautiful : )
2007-03-25 00:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then what d'you think about your personality? are you a nice person? do you have many friends? you may talk to a friend who knows you very well and try to find out the reasons. anyway, don't be so desperate. you're just 17. you still have a lot of time to get to know some really good guys and find the one who suits you. good luck.
2007-03-25 00:12:35 · answer #11 · answered by dreamland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋