Ok so, as i am indian, well my parents noticed this guy and they referred him to me.so i have been talking on fone with him for abt 2 months time now..he calls every weekend or so...and hes also comin to c me.and maybe we wil go around for 2-3 days...and im nervous!! How shud i Impress him?!! how shud i make us get close to each other?? Is it ok to kiss (oon lips) and hug..after just roaming together for 2-3 days? is that normal...How shud i dress..how shud i impress?!! and is kissin ok?!!
2007-03-24 16:59:57 · 11 answers · asked by mani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has it occurred to you that he may be butt ugly?
Pick your own man.
2007-03-24 17:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Stuart 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey
i understand that u have been talking to him for only a couple of months on the phone... but things change... once u meet him in person it could be different... my answer to impress him is be ur self... dont set the standard too high... just relax and act like u normally would around ur guy friends... the best way to get to know him is being by ur self... NOT WITH FAMILY present... yea so go to a coffee shop or where ever... and talk once u get to talking u wont stop...
the main thing Kissing!!!
i dont think u should kiss him on the lips till a little bit... unless its the right timing... if and only if the moments is right then do it... hugs are okay... on the second day ... cause u dont no if he smells or has some kinda hugging thing...
if he seems like the kind of guy who has been kissed then on the 3rd day kiss him on the cheek as a hug and a kiss if he isnt weirded out by it then its a good thing...
the dressing part... jeans.. tight..and a cute shirt that fits well with ur skin color.. or like something cute that says: yea i no i look good in this but this is the way i always look and im not trying too hard to impress u...kind of thing.. dont look desperate that is a total negative...
well good luck and just remember he is more likely to like u if u act like u always do...
just relax and have fun...
good luck..
2007-03-24 17:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by pookster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this will be your first person to person meeting! First impressions count. Dress sexy.. maybe a nice fitted pair of jeans and a cute top (not too revealing) and if weather permits a nice sandal, if a not a leather boot or shoe (with heel) and a cute purse or wristlet to match. Remember to accessorize. If you wear make-up make sure it is flawless and that your hair is neatly done and that course you smell good. If applicable, contacts instead of glasses. Most important be yourself. Have Fun.. Remember you two have talked on the phone for awhile so ya'll are not complete strangers. Good Luck, Have Fun.
2007-03-24 17:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress nice, and only let him kiss your hand. Once you are both engaged then you may let him kiss you in the lips, and nothing more until you are married. Be a very good girl! In addition, do not be nervous let him see that he is very lucky to be with a girl like you.
2007-03-24 17:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you dont have to impress him...he is already going out with you...that part is done..dont over do it... i believe kissing is alway ok if the moment is right...maybe go to a movie and he will make a move to get close to you...dress like you always do..dont try anything that would make you uncomfortable or that isnt you..be yourself...thats always safe..
2007-03-24 17:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Heaven B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um..well l am also an indian(punjabi)and i think you should get to know him a little better before kissing him.after marrige you should do all that.talk to him in a nice manner.respectful.even fake cry with your head on his shoulder for some reason.well after you guys talk.
Good Luck!!!
um..i would like to talk to you,so email me when you look at my profile.
2007-03-24 17:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i must say that you just need to be your self and if he is meant for you he will love the way you are and your mind will be able tell you if the time is right for kissing.
2007-03-24 17:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by confusedguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok ok calm down. hugging, yeah sure, go for it. kissing, not sure. u need to see if you two are a good fit. You have never seen this guy face to face to he might be totally different. i know this is really crappy advice but be urself. if u r someone ur not, he mite fall in love with the wrong you. if he doesnt like u for who u r, then he is not the right guy for u. good luck!
2007-03-24 17:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to be yourself !! Otherwise he wont know the real you . Kissing is Ok as long as your culture doesnt prohibit it, and as long as you WANT to kiss.. Nothing fake and no acting.
Good luck
2007-03-24 17:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush love takes time BE YOURSELF Kissing huging etc. is right if you care I kissed on our first date we have been married 25 years
2007-03-24 17:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Grand pa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋