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My ex broke up with me about 2 months ago, over something as silly has having a conversation with a guy he thought was up to no good. It led to a huge fight. He asked for his house key back and told me to leave.( i was hurt). After the fight, it seemed as though we were fighting once a week. So recently he went out on date with some chick. He told me where they had gone and what they had done. After leaving the date, he said he realizes that he could not be without me and being with me is where he wants to be. He told me, yes he was curious. But now, he knows for sure his place is with me. My question is "will any of you give him another chance?" I knows he cares for me but right now I don't kow if that is enough. Help.....

2007-03-24 16:58:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

18 answers

It sounds like he used the situation to break things off, for whatever reason. Whether you want to take him back or not is up to you, but I probably wouldn't. He sounds flighty.

2007-03-24 17:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I wouldn't give him more chances. I've been with a guy like that and it just gets worse. The real issue is the fact that he doesn't trust you enough. If he really knew you and loved you he wouldn't be acting like this. The reason he says that he cares for you and wants you back is because he's realizing what he left behind and he's regretting it. Leave him where he is. You'll be better off without him! Think of yourself right now...you don't have an obligation to make this guy happy...it's your life...treat yourself with dignity and honor! :)

2007-03-24 17:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It sounds as though there is not a great deal of trust between the two of you and neither of you is sure what or who they want. I would suggest your best bet is to split up for a while and decide. If after about a month you both feel you want to be together, maybe you can both be more sure of what you want.

2007-03-24 17:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 0 0

On this one you will have to follow your heart. Does he get jealous over nothing often? Could you live with that?
If the answer is yes, he's not that bad, then go back to him. It sounds like the 2 of you are in love.

The relationship does sound like it's worth working on. You will have to tell him that he can trust you and his unfounded temper is something he has got to work on if the relationship is going to succeed.

Good luck.

2007-03-24 17:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 0 0

no hes up to no good. first of all he is always gonna find a silly excuse to break up with u so he can fool around wiht other girl when he gets bored with the relationship... hes one of those guys that u wanan put behind, there is so much better out there for u, so dont get stuck with this one.

2007-03-24 17:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honestly, i am a guy, and from my point of view. He is an insecure guy, and if he did it once to you, the odds are almost 50% that he will do it again. I would suggest you leave him, cause he doesn't deserve you, hes a Jealous son of a gun.

2007-03-24 17:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mist 3 · 2 0

yes, i would give him a second chance. he might have gotten jealous when you were talking to this other guy and thought you wanted to be with this guy instead (i don't know if that's what he thought or not). i would give him another chance, but if he starts acting overly jealous and weird again, talk it over and do what you have to do

2007-03-24 17:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by BeachBabe 2 · 0 0

No way! You dont need to put up with that tell hime to take a hike! If he is willing to go out with another girl now he will do it again.

2007-03-24 17:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Alexzandra 1 · 0 0

NO! He sounds like a friggin psycho....How can you deal with daily life where u havta come in contact with men with him lurking angrily over ur shoulder.....be careful....cause if he got that psycho over something so stupid.....God knows what hes capable of doing when he imagines other things concerning you and men.

2007-03-24 17:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by marie 3 · 1 0

He may really care for you but he needs to get his act together first. Until he proves to you that he has, I wouldn't take him back.

2007-03-24 17:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by bosco6159 4 · 2 0

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