whats wrong with me? plz help?

Question

im 13 years old [my birthday is actually today] and ive been crying all day every day for the past month. ive been waay depressed and stressed out because i want to lose weight [im at 110lbs, 5ft at the moment] my goal is to be 90lbs cuz i want to be an actress one day. my boyfriend has been trying to help me but for some reason i wont let him. i dont want him to think i just dont care anymore. what should i do?

Answer 1

Stop feeding your face and start exercising. Get over yourself.

Answer 2

Happy Birthday!

Secondly stop be depressed there is no point. If you want to loose weight then it's all up to you to do that. Crying is not going to help or slove anything so why do it. If your boyfriend is wanting and willing to help you then let him. All you need to do is start doing some cardio 3 times a week for 30 minutes. Don't eat a lot of junk food. Stop drinking sodas and drink plently of water everyday. Your only 13 you shouldn't let this bother you so much. I used to be in your shoes so I know how you feel. Don't stress!
You can walk or run for cardio. You can buy some workout tapes. I like Leslie Sansome "Walk Away The Pound"

Answer 3

I can really get you. Believe it or not, I'm experiencing the same thing just a year ago. So bad that I start to starve myself for weeks!! No one knows it though. Because I started to understand what's wrong and deal with it. The thing is there is no shortcut for you right now. Look at all your problems thoroughly. Think of a plan to lose weight. Whether it is exercising 5 days per week or cutting off the cookies, give yourself small goals every week. Change your lifestyle. Dont try to hurt yourself. We can only have this life once. So try to enjoy. I can do it, so you can too. Happy birthday and good luck with everything you do.

Answer 4

For your hieght you are at a very good weight. If you go to 90lb you will be too small. The modeling industry is already banning under weight girls for shows. The movie industry will follow suit. I suggest you worry more about taking acting lessons then losing weight.

Answer 5

well...at least two things could be going on here-

1. hormonal changes can bring about mood swings such as an irritable feeling- when you feel like snapping at people with out them really doing anything to get you angry. Sadness is also an extreme emotion that you can feel because of hormonal peaks and valleys.

2. Because of your dieting, you may have caused your blood sugar to drop to low levels.

talk to a Doctor about this if it continues beyond two weeks- hang in there!

Answer 6

whats wrong with you? the fact that you are 13 and already worrying about your weight, the fact that you are at 110 and want to lose weight. thats the beginnings of anorexia right there.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Jessi, if you are depressed you need to talk to your parents. you are to young to be bothered with these issues as long as you are not overweight. Your parent can get you some help..you still have time to be an actress. please speak with your parent! There is nothing wrong with you. you are just growing up.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Happy birthday.. nothing anyone tells you will help. your 13. you wont understand,