i luv this really awsome dude and i have known him for 8 years and i dont think he luvs or even likes me and yes im sure im in luv with him i want to spend the rest of my life with him i would die for him and he dosent know i even like him what do i do
2007-03-24 16:54:33 · 14 answers · asked by Erika H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you've known him for 8 years then u should just go out and tell him. if ya dont then what do u expect to happen?if he just decides to be friends then it's ok. eventually you'll find the right person for u.
2007-03-24 16:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book, He just not that into you. I had the same situation and after wasting too much time on this matter, I took a good look at myself and myself worth and realize that if he can't figure out that I love him, then I will find someone that would...I wrote down exactly what I wanted and was very clear in what I did not want...and about a month later met a wonderful man, three times better than the last man...and I thought...anyway, good luck...remember you are worth too much to waste your time.
2007-03-24 17:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by D A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds insensitive to the person you choose to try this experiment with, but I would try and re-direct my feelings towards another, even if it is forced at first. Even by just spending time with another person, you may lessen your feelings that you have towards this current guy you are in love with. Or you can rip it off like a band-aid and tell this guy you love him. If he turns you down, that may hurt but it may do the trick, then you can start to heal. OR maybe he will like you too and you can give this thing a try!
2007-03-24 17:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can A) tell him you like him, put yourself out there he may like you and a relationship could develop or you could get hurt because he doesnt feel the same way
or B) move on and stop hoping that he one day notices you as more then just a friend, meet new people date other boys you may find someone else you like even more then this boy who feels the same about you...
2007-03-24 16:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you need to do is to tell him that you have really strong feelings for him. If he doesn't say anything give him time. Give him time to think it out. Don't add it on. give him time. Though if he says he doesn't like you like that you can find someone better. But just don't waste time on one guy and guy only. there are so many guys out there in the world to like.
2007-03-24 17:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't fall out of love, he will always be in your heart and on your mind. That is how it is when you fall in love. Have you told him how you feel or at least that you like him? Maybe you should start with at least stating that you like him and if he does not feel the same then you will have to move on.
2007-03-24 16:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him and face the chance of having a relationship or getting my heart broken. Either of the two will help you move forward with life.
2007-03-24 16:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by stormc2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure he doesn't like you then the way to fall out of love is..Time and Friends!! Good Luck
2007-03-24 16:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant. Time heals all wonds, trust me it hurts. I had a boyfriend of 4 years break up with me because he decided to be gay. Now tell me that one wasnt hard to get over.
2007-03-24 16:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell him, if u don't then ur feelings will be all botteled up inside & in the future u'll never know what could have happend
2007-03-24 17:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋