How do you heal a broken heart??? Like if your boyfriend dumps you simple because he wants to "figure out his life". Then how do ya'll deal with that, cause my heart literally hurts. It feels like sharp pains in my chest.
2007-03-24 16:49:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh darling, I know exactly how u feel. I've had my heart broken several times. And yes, it does physically hurt. I felt as if someone had hit me. The first time it happened to me I was literally, physically sick for several weeks. And for several more months I 'saw' him everywhere. So I do know where ur coming from.
How old r u? If ur young then it will take a shorter time to heal, but u know what? The only thing that will cure it is time.
So the best thing to do is to have a really good cry, I hope ur doing that right now, then go to ur girlfriends and have a cry with them and then have a girl's night in with all the icecream, pizza and love stories on DVD that u can handle. Lol.
U will heal in time, sweetie.
U know the old cliche, there's plenty more fish in the sea.
All my best wishes, love, and good luck.
2007-03-24 17:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Simon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help. I'm still healing from my broken heart. I once loved a girl so deeply, that I believed that I had finally found the one for me. We were good friends, and when I was on the verge of asking her out, she stabbed me in the back, going with someone else. It hurts, feeling like you've been shot, but life has to go on, I know it seems hard, but time heals all wounds. The emptiness will last awhile, but things'll brighten up. When it happened to me, I felt cold, my spirit was broken, and I felt so... alone. It was horrible, but I was lucky enough to have good friends who stood by my side, and that's probably why I'm still alive right now. All I can say is keep your head up, look towards the future, and don't get too erratic about things, and you'll do alright. Hope this helped. Good Luck.
2007-03-24 16:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one.Im having the same trouble myself.It feels just like a heart attack or something.And just the thought of that person just makes it ache worse sometimes beat faster,you feel so empty inside,like somethings missing,like your heart is just calling out for that person,am i right?
They say time heals all wounds but i think thats a bunch a bull.Because that wound still leaves a scar,i think eventually you just learn to live with it,you never really get over it.I know it sounds harsh but i think thats just the reality of it.
Im very sorry about your break up i know exacly how it feels,i know it hurts,and if i knew a way to get rid of all the hurt id et rid of it for the both of us.
2007-03-24 17:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by catfishhunter 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been there literally 9 months ago and I know exactly how you feel. The only advise I can give you, is to let time go by, and let him figure out what he wants. Do not let him know that you will wait for him, because that way you will never heal if he does not come back. In the meantime, keep yourself busy, watch funny movies, work out, but don't let him preoccupy your mind. I know its harder said then done. If you have to, see a therapist. You know that saying, if you love someone let him go, if he comes back it was meant to be, if not, it never was. He may come back, and see where you go from there.
I feel for you, and if at all, let time heal.
Best Wishes
2007-03-24 16:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In time it will feel better but it will take some time. Oh. you'll
feel love again. Don't worry about that. I've felt like that time and time again. Like a big empty hole in my chest. When my fiance' ran off with our child, which wasn't mine I found out later, and adopted the girl out and aborted the ones that were ours... Yeah, love is rough and you put yourself at risk every
single time. Give him some time, he may come around anyday now. If not, you just go on. Heal up and find someone who will stay with you.
2007-03-24 17:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by redman 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it does, but you cannot make someone committ on the level you are. If he has asked for time, and you truly see it is a legitimate request, then you need to accept it. You certainly can't change it. Your heart is hurting and there is no way to stop it for now. Time is the ultimate healer ... Just remember. If it is meant to be, it will be. Make the best of your time apart and prepare for whatever the outcome is. Don't worry about it, worry changes nothing.
2007-03-24 17:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by daffodil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I´m sorry to hear that. I wish I could give you some advice but I haven´t been able to heal my own heart. Hope it works out better for you.
2007-03-24 17:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Marian Ruthven 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had the answer for you honey cos Iam going thru the same thing Iam just rekying on God and friends to see me thru--I'll pray for you honey--remember -- you are special and dont deserve to hurt like this--Iam going thru a support group for this pain your experieciing--if you wanna talk email me. God bless you
2007-03-24 17:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by tbasey3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time. thats about all. try finding things to do to get your mind off of it-hang out with friends, paint, read, etc. the hardest part is realizing that you will be better off without him. he obviously doesnt care enough about you to stay, so let him go. trust me, there is someone out there for you...you just have to wait until he finds you. good luck. ♥♥
2007-03-24 16:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by laura 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋